14. get together-relatively speaking (6,9)
16, curiously you can use ices to adorn (11)
17. ronnie asked for 4 (7)
34. Hhe sits on it-can you see his leg (6)
40. tinkling chimes (6,5)
17. in the comedy sketch with the 2 Ronnies, he asks for 4 CANDLES (the joke being the other Ronnie thought he was asking for FORK HANDLES! So ithink the answer you ned for no. 17 is Candles