soul mate

[dontaskme]

I think I have found my soul mate..

is this possible even though I'm married?

[nicola_red]

Of course.  There's no guarantee that the person you married was your soulmate, even though you might have thought they were at the time.  I also think it might be possible to have more than one at different times in your life.  sounds as if you have a lot of thinking to do!

[I_Tried]

Dontaskme,

Yes one can have a soulmate even though he/she is married but does that necessarily mean you need to "jack in" your marriage. I think not. Maybe and this is me heavily assuming maybe you see this soulmate person as an escape from your marriage.

Do I see  Mr. dontaskme and Mrs dontaskme becoming another statistic in a world full of self indulgence and self satisfaction hmmm time will tell........

[dontaskme]

i haven't actually met my soul mate in the flesh...and I don't think its a sexual thing..but we just clicked,2 months ago I would have said it was a load of bull,but I could just chat with him for hours..I would never leave mr D, but this other guy stimulates my mind on a completely new level..I feel like a new me..

[mullein2]

when you are married you get in a rut ..like comfortable ..and anything new that comes along stimulates you..you may have found your soul mate ..but...and its a big but...you never know anyone till you live with them..and people can tell you anything...perhaps you and mr d need to start doing more together and try to communicate...i can tell you what my other half is going to say before he says it..as i have known him 30 years..that sounds boring doesnt it..i talk him to death...

[dontaskme]

But as its not a sexual thing and i've never met him, I'm not cheating..am I?

[nicola_red]

Cheating is a very flexible word and what one person considers cheating another wouldn't.  You're probably the best placed to answer that question!

[eternalteena]

Yes definately, I met my soul mate while on holiday and we have remained friends

[dontaskme]

I don't feel guilty, so I guess i'm not..I do feel much happier with myself..

[Eels]

Do you feel happier because you like the stimulation and attention, feel flattered and attractive?  If this is the case then tread carefully - very carefully.  It's potentially the top of a long slippery slope.

[dontaskme]

yes and no, Its weird,I don't feel happy cos I met him,I feel happy with myself, maybe he's not my soul mate, maybe he has just made me take a long hard look at myself and now I realise I'm actually quite a nice person, after all..If that makes sense..

[Bottom]

Did you meet this person on the internet? If so be careful, I think that the internet can sometimes dangerous, I am sue that you feel you can trust this person but just be aware. Sorry to be a downer