feeling worthless

[lilmissblush]

it isn't fair what has happened, i am nice and kind and take my boyfriends feeling into consideration.
its been the worst weekend of my life, what made it worse was that its my birthday but i wish it wasn't!
my party was crap my boyfriend got jealous because im close to a family friend thats a boy so he has had a go at me all weekend about it and made it hell making me cry countless times through guilt.
my birthday was rubbish, he kept on digging at me and we had a massive argument today,im just too sick to carry on arguing, btw he will not listen to my defences but i have to listen to him over reacting and take it, kinda startin to make me depressed :L

[karenmac60]

Get rid of him. You don't need someone treating you this way, you're worth more than that.

[askyourgran]

Tell him nicely to take a running jump lilmiss. He sounds like a domineering bully. Dump him he won't change later on.

[RATTER15]

Time to say goodbye I think!

[tinkerbell23]

Lil miss get rid hunny, cos you sound like me!! Best thing i ever done...i looked back and thought thats 3 birthdays in a row you have ruined...u dont get these times back...up his!! Xxxx

[wilkesneil]

to have a successful relationship you not to have trust for each other, without trust you have nothing. unfortunately some people do get jealous but if he trusted you then he'd know it was closeness as friendship rather than anything else. why cry with guilt if you've done nothing wrong, plenty more fish in the sea and listen to him but also make him listen to you. its a 2 way thing not a 1 way...

[anneasquith]

if someone really loves you, they dont make you sad or unhappy.

[starone]

A selfish domineering control freak in training. A loving relationship does not include any of this. It is painful being young, as you seem to be, but take notice of the voices of experience who have advised you and move on to someone better. There are plenty out there, I know.

[brenda]

lilmiss---- not the one for you this one.He has no right to even think that he can make you cry.How dare he. Get rid of him otherwise as you go on he will be a complete bully and your life will be hell.Just do it and then you will find someone who really values you as a person.Let this slimy toad go.

[rowanwitch]

head up kid... Look in the mirror and say every morning and every evening I deserve better...And I will find better..... you can do without his pathetic insecurities go find a grown up...

[Sqad]

So what is your question?

[Old_Geezer]

We all experience periods of life when we feel down. Has to be or we'd not appreciate the up periods. Worth remembering that nothing stays the say. down today, back on the up & up sometime in the future.

So the party wasn't as wonderful as you'd have liked. That's life, one party really isn't a big thing. Honest.
Your boyfriend got jealous and you say he had no reason to. Well you can't control others feelings. Talk to him and explain,. If he can't accept you have a close family friend then that's his problem, not yours. Maybe he isn't the one for you after all then. at least not yet, not until he's grown up a bit. (That said I'm mindful of the fact we only have one side of the story.) But try to talk it out with him first. And if you think you've done all the attempts at talking you can take, well maybe time to move on.

Breaking up is depressing, but it doesn't stay that way, and it's not as depressing as staying for ages in a relationship that makes you unhappy.

[Noraq]

Lilmiss....listen to all of the above..you know in your heart..it will get worse..not better.

and don't fall for the old c**p that he is like this cause he loves you...however, I know (from experience) that you will only move on when the time is right for you. All the advice in the world will not move you... until you actually want to move on. be good to yourself lilmiss and much luv to you.

N.x.

[Scarlett]

You need to dump him. If your man gives you sh#t, get rid of him. Don't let him spoil your life. In relationships, what people seem to forget is that we are sent all these love hormones which make us fall in love and want to reproduce. This, biologically, is a temporary hormonal thing, and does not last. The 'good' bit lasts for maybe 18 months, And then it's hard slog. He clearly does not trust you, he ruined your birthday; he sounds like a spoilt brat. You need to get rid of him and be single - do your own thing!