attemted fraud

[its_me]

hi there im sorry to be a pain, i have been charged with 2 counts of attempted fraud as my partner was involved too. Basically we attempted to cash our own cheques in a cheque cashing store but they rang the police fair doo's in interview we held our hands up to not having sufficient funds in accounts. Thing is i was sent to prison for fraud 4 years ago but something on the scale of £45,000 this time round its sums of £1850 & £1900 but attempts. I am really worried about prison this time round as i have a young child and was so stupid to even think about doing anything like this as i have so much to loose. Please help!

[its_me]

Weas thanks for the support obviously some dont feel the same which is understandable. As for googling anything about me would that actually help anyone thats judging one by there past and not what they are doing from relese and at present. Saying that judgemental people who are judging me need to really take stock of there own issues i asked for help, not to be scrutinised!

[weas]

I am not aware thaT i have ever committed a crime ,but i am aware when i was younger i made bad choices because i was young, it is easy to be older wiser and richer whatever ,and then to judge others, get a life !! help them!!!!!!!!

[ladybirder]

Don't despair. I have a friend who runs a small company with about ten employees and all but two have a criminal record. He believes in giving people a chance and will not judge them until they let HIM down and so far not one of them have.

[its_me]

Totally agree there weas hense why i took on a role of helping victims of homicide families and case studies show there siblings would be involved with police probation and prison service thats telling me they need some sort of help. Not saying punishment shouldnt be served but saying help them along the way too. Shame not everyone dont have the same views out of all these comments 3 people have had an actual decent comment without been judgemental.

[its_me]

thanks ladybirder least there are some people who have faith in others. Been young and stupid dont mean im excused but all i can say is life is a big learning curve

[weas]

they have not all been perfect !!! I am just an joe bloggs!!! I had a hard life to start with, worked hard , found my own rules! now i have it all!!! so can you, go for it

[joggerjayne]

Well said, weas ... and I join you in hoping that its_me somehow survives tomorrow.

It's completely pointless saying "You shouldn't have done it, you should have known better, blahdy, blahdy, blah".



its_me already KNOWS all that !

And we all do stupid things. Sometimes those things are stupid because they are against the law, and sometimes ... they are just stupid because they are stupid.

But hey ho ... I'm pleased that its-me's solicitor seems to agree with me ...

It will be close, but I'd put my money on a suspended sentence, and Community Service.

Slapped wrist, very sorry, won't happen again ... back on AnswerBank this time tomorrow.

x

[its_me]

Jayne glad to see you have faith in one. Hey this is what im saying im here for advise not to be told how it is as i am aware of this but i cannot dwel on fact ive done it im a man so i will take the punishment in due course but to admit i am in debt and currently recieving CBT of the mental health team which took nearly 3 years to get onto, feels like ive just thrown it all away for nothing in an act of stupidity. Yes solicitor thinks community order or suspended hopefully as of probation but still dont make me think other wise. Cheers again Jayne

[weas]

off to cook the dinner !make sure your here tomorrow to tell us all is well!!!

[ladybirder]

JJ - must be a Brighton thing:-)

[its_me]

i will hopefully will be enjoy dinner

[joggerjayne]

Hi, Ladybirder.

What'sa Brighton thing?

Empathising with wrong doers? ... or being tolerant?

Maybe both.

Actually, I don't think if I try to go beyond the floral clock, my ankle tag sounds an alarm, and I get hauled in, LOL.

[joggerjayne]

I mean ... "I think"

=0)

[its_me]

Perhaps both lol who cares but brighton is a nice part to live in lol im hoping to come once tomorrow is out the way to go and see the beach n the sea rofl

[ladybirder]

As you say JJ probably both but I meant tolerance. Sorry about the tag; how do you get your ski boots on:-)?

[joggerjayne]

You'll love it, its_me.

Be careful not to stray into Hove. They will stone you.

Actually, you could get stoned in Brighton too, but not in the same way, he he.

I shouldn't tell you things like that when you're due in Court, should I.

[joggerjayne]

It's a small tag.

We all have them in Brighton.

We can't cross the invisible line from the floral clock to the cricket ground, LOL.

[its_me]

lmfao oh well im sure either way im getting stones so it may have to be put on the back burner untill tomorrow afternoon at 1pm when the solicitor rekons i should be leaving fingers crossed