Not trusting at all. I have been let down too many times. I once lent a so called mate £200. It was going to buy a present for Mrs MM birthday (she had set her heart on a bracelet) this was many years ago. He promised He would give it back on the following sunday. I have not seen him since.
To add, I was in a job that it had taken me years to find in life, I found it & I'd loved it & it was distroyed by one basd who I though was trustworthy.