Phew Annie - your OP made it sound (to me and everyone else by the sound of it) that it's me who's offended you - I'm glad we've cleared that up! Better to put FAO Boxtops, next time!
Annie - if you are offended by any response, all you have to do is click on the report button for that answer, and say why - that report goes straight to the Ed each time, so Ed can see who's getting at you. I agree with you, you were getting some pretty nasty comments towards the end last night, you can still report them now. Don't let them get to you. Don't be afraid to report - late night postings can attract some odd responses sometimes.