Should i tell him that i love him?

[Rosiejayne21]

I really do love my boyfriend. I know he has strong feelings for me, but i don't think that he is in love with me. How or should i tell him how i feel??

[VHG]

It depends how long you have been going out.

If only a week he will probably run a mile. If longer he may like the idea.

However I do think men feel very differently about "being in love" than women do so be careful you dont scare him off.

Men are also more reluctant to show their emotions and find it hard to say "I love you".

They certainly dont like it when a woman asks "do you love me, if you do say so", it puts them on a spot.

[Mcvj]

With my first fella, I started feeling strongly for him before he did for me. One night I had a couple of drinks and it felt like I would explode if I didnt say something to him. I don't know if thats the same for everyone...?

The guy that I'm with at the moment told me that he had very strong feelings for me after a short amount of time and told me that he loved me very early in. To be honest, it caused problems because I felt like I wasnt in the same place as him - it just added pressure unnecessarily.

Just have fun and enjoy yourself, you don't need the label of love in order to do that! xx

[beso]

VHG makes a common generalisation about men and women. Everyone is different and it isn't that cut and dried.

[Dee Sa]

leave it for now and see if he tells you first.

[JonnyBoy12]

Does it feel right for you? If so then carry on, and tell him later. If it does not feel right then you should not carry on with it. I have almost been in many relationships which do not feel right at all. A friend of mine had to point out I could not carry on with them.