Anxious Husband..

[sluggy_jones]

My wife is a regular user of facebook keeping in touch with her friends and old school friends ect. Several weeks ago she added a guy who she went out with when she was at school. I'm certain this chap was her first love. She now corresponds with this guy more than she does with anyone else on there. Ive seen what they say to each other as this guy hasnt set his profile to private. Although some of what they say is slightly flirty, most of it is casual banter. But Ive noticed they always end their messages with a 'X' something she hasnt or dosnt do with her other male friends. Her ex is single and never married. Am I right to be worried that this relationship could develop further or am I just being paranoid?

[tigwig]

I dont think youre paranoid no. In fact in my opinion you are right to be concerned. I'm not suggesting there is anything going on but if it were me I would feel I was betraying my husband if I was communicating with other males so much especially if it were an ex. I would discuss it with her and tell her how you feel without accusing her of anything. Like someone else said would she like it if it were the other way round? There should be no need to do what shes doing, she should be talking to you more and not be stuck on FB.

[joko]

you kiss people hello and goodbye, its just a greeting...if it starts to be 3 or 4 kisses, then worry...

[DTCwordfan]

when this starts to happen, you should be really worried.....

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