So Confused: update

[Cockney_si]

As a follow up to my question

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I've seen her briefly and now realised how much she can't cope on her own and also realised how i've been a little selfish about the whole situation, even though it still hurts like hell.

She still cares about me a lot and still wants me to be here friend but still needs time out on her own to stay with her mum but I feel she's crumbling over the pressure of dealing with her child and all her other worries. Me not being there to help with her child looks like it has worn her down.

I've left it at that now, she's basically said she's gonna be free soon and wouldn't mind seeing me then. I'm not going to push anything but whatever happens I'm still there for her.

[{Dakota}]

Hi Si, I'm ever so glad you are giving her the space she needs. So long as she knows you are there for her then that's the best thing you can do for her. She'll work out all the other issues in her life in time and you'll be back with her in good time. I know you're hurting sweetheart and you'd rather not wait but patience really is a virtue.

xxx

[Cockney_si]

I've apologised to her now and said I'd been a bit selfish, which has built a few bridges and made me happier if nothing else.