Over reaction to absent hubbie overnight??

[Smowball]

To cut very long story short, my OH was due to meet friends to watch a footie match on Saturday at about noon, and was then due home for dinner in the eve.I last got a txt at 6 pm saying he was still with them all in pub. so I replied saying ok, when do you think you will be leaving as it was about an hour home. He always always txts wen on train home. That was the last I heard from him. i left it a few hours, by now it was getting late. I rang his mobile but no reply. I didnt know the numbers of anybody that he was with, and this was totally out of character.By 1 am I was in such a state that I called the police, who were very lovely and although they didnt come round they told me to keep them updated.Morning came and still no word or sign, then about 8am I suddenly realised that I did have a mob number for the main friend that he met as it was on an invitation he had given us months ago. I flung open drawers and finally fouund it. called it but just rang out so left and voicemail and then a text. Half an hour later the friend calls to say that my OH got a bit the worse for wear and fell asleep on his sofa, and they couldnt call me as his mob started to play up! Says he was on his way home now.So I straight away call police to tell them the update and while Im on the phone to them he walked in the door. Not a sorry, not an apology, just sat down to watch tv. Well Im sorry but I exploded. I had imagined all sorts of things and the relief as seeing him was just too much. he did just sit there and take everything I said but still looked bemused and best he could come up with was that it wasnt planned. But when somebody has never ever done that in 8 years then I was bound to think the worse wasnt I??

[ummmm]

And just as likely, probably wasn't.

[Smowball]

not having a good week am I ummmm : (

[Nini74]

i would do the same to him this weekend! plan to stay over at a mates house, tell him you're just popping out with them for an hour, and see how long it takes him to phone and text you. Give him until the third time he phones you, and then text him to ask how much he likes the boot being on the other foot? xx

[welshlibranr]

yes you were bound to think the worst!......I would too!.....must be more to it!........

[Smowball]

ctually, there is more to this story, I just havent posted any further as everybody must be sick of the story lol

[B00]

oh dear....

Go on.

[Smowball]

lol well I just dont know where to start, a lot of it is gut feelings. maybe im just a paranoid nutcase! xx