Husband has friends who take drugs

[swansgal]

My husband has friends who take drugs. I knew he was friends with them, they are in their twenties, my husband is 51. He owns a clothes shop and nightclub and these two girls work for him. I know one of the girls is selling the drugs from the shop and in the club, i can't say anything because i found out from a personal facebook account. Ive had a go at him for being friends with them, he says he has nothing to do with what they are doing. He's lending them money as he says he that type of person if someone want something he will help them out. I can't confront him about the selling of drugs, and i don't think he'd believe me anyway. Im really upset by all this and told him to stop hanging around with them, but all he says is im not doing nothing wrong.

[swansgal]

Been married for 24 years. I must admit i am jealous that he has a close relationship with these girls, just the thought that they take drugs and sponge money off him. They both only work about one day a week, their not bothered about working because they know he's there on hand when they want money.

[murraymints]

then he is being VERY VERY foolish and selfish...needs a kick up the behookey from someone in a uniform !!!!!

[Brinjal]

His behavior is very inappropriate. If my husband was taking young girls out for meals the would be serious discussions. Sounds as if he is having the whole male mid life thing and trying to be "hip" and be part of the young crowd. He can end up in trouble and to be sure the girls are just using him for what they can get and won't give a damn about him if things go wrong.

[Smowball]

Why is he taking these young girls out for dinner on his own? Im not saying men cant have women friends but it sounds like they are taking advantage of him and he is flattered by the attention. Just my opinion, i could be wrong. But if I was you I would be furious.