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i would bite their arm off. I used to be very career focussed, but when heather died, i just found i couldn't summon up any enthusiasm at all for work, it just seemed so bloody pointless. then i was immediately pg again with william, so was just marking time before my life as a mum would start. then after he died, i was pregnant again fairly soon and again just marking time in order to get through the days. i've actually had 3 lots of mat leave in the last 2 years, and have only been back for a few months in between, so i'm hardly an ideal employee! i think it would suit the both of us to part ways really