How Do I Know If He Is Gay?

[superwholock]

There's this guy who I am really good friends with. I'm a girl and I'm starting to develop feelings for him. But I am also starting to suspect he may be gay. He like Miley Cyrus (he likes her old songs), One Direction, Taylor Swift, he likes this show when people go out and bye wedding dresses, he loves Phantom of the Opera (I do to. We are both singing those songs all the time), he told me I was sweet (on movies gay guys are always very friendly toward girls it seems), he told me he likes my nails because they're sparkly, he wants to go to Paris (but I mean who doesn't want to go to Paris), and my friend thinks he's gay. The weird thing is though, he's Christian and being gay is like a bad thing. I'm Christian too, but I believe it isn't wrong to be gay. He is homeschooled, but I see him during choir, drama club, and karate. Do you think there is a chance he could like me? Do you think he's gay? I don't care if he is gay, but I want to know if it's even worth liking him more than a friend. Please help me.

[Mamyalynne]

Time will tell, let your friendship develop gradually and see how it goes. You sound young, so there is no rush.

He sounds a super friend.

[Buenchico]

There are plenty of straight men who love musicals and the songs of Judy Garland. Equally, there are plenty of gay men who love high-powered motorbikes and boxing. Forget about stereotypes. Simply ask the guy for a date and see how he responds!

[AlwaysConfused]

Wow, seems you have the best here - either he is your bestest mate ever, or your dream date. Go with the flow, time will tell. Gay or not, do not ruin such a good friendship. He sounds amazing

[ummmm]

My OH is a blokey bloke and he loves those wedding programmes.

My gay son wouldn't listen to any of the music you've listed.

My straight son loves chick flicks and would happily sit here sobbing.

Everyone has different tastes.

[B00]

you could do something radical like ask him?

[pusskin]

I'd love a gay man as a friend.
I have two Nephews who are gay and i love them to bits.

[ck1]

Get naked and see what he does...