Hurt And Confused.

[Zammo]

I'd been chatting with a guy on a dating website and after about a week he gave me his number so we started texting. He'd text me just about everyday and then he asked me on a Date. We got on great, he was very tactile but I wasn't put off(liked him). He told me he liked me and I believed him. We arranged a second date but the day of the date he cancelled saying he had gotten bad news and wouldn't be much company. He asked to reschedule which we did for the following week inbetween times we carried on texting - even for 8 hours one night. Anyway the day of the second date he text to say he was in hospital (nothing serious so he says). I was ready to give up so text him to say I thought fate was trying to tell us something and that if he wasn't interested in me I wish he'd just have said instead of wasting my time and his! He replied saying he was interested but now can't pursue dating for the immediate future because his health comes first and says he's had some bad stuff happen over the winter and when it comes to his health he won't be dating for a long time although says he wants to stay in touch. I'm not expecting to hear from him again. I don't get it though. So confused. I noticed he has deactivated his account from the dating site but why chat to someone for 6 weeks, 8 hours a night, organise a second date if you're not interested??!!

[viv38]

I didn't realise if was December either, but it's only a few days old anyway !

[homedeeth]

Tell me about it luv. This is the world of internet dating. You know nothing about them really and what they are really like. Got chatting myself to a 'lovely' lady, laughing, discussing, bantering and organised a date after a week only for her to ignore me 2 days up to the date and then deleted her account

[NoMercy]

He was keeping in touch with you to keep his options open whilst he continued to shop around.