relationships

[dmaxxx]

in love with a girl,shes been caught cheating,she cheated on previous partners,i gave her evrything.caught her telling more lies 3 weeks ago,so i hopped on flight 2 thailand to finish with her.i wanted to forget.next thing im back,shes mailing me,texting me saying i was the love of her life...that shes hurtin bad and its killing her...also says she wanted my baby...now ive asked her to come together and ort the whole damb mess out and that i still love her with all my heart,guess what? she doesnt want to know now! she asked me via text what i wanted from her,i replied "love" she said im sorry but i cant do that i wish i could!! i just dont understand woman,,is she no longer in love? is she trying 2 hurtme for leaving her? is she with another guy? or did she ever love me? please help me on this one.....by the way,,any nice girls out there haha,,,,,im hurtin very bad

[theren_911]

Sounds rough mate, I hope you get things sorted.

From what you've written it looks like she either can't deal with the long distance thing or is just playing games with you. Either way, I'd reccomend cutting yourself off from her for a while. Go out with the boys and have a few good nights.

[MoFo]

How can you possibly claim to be in love - you already know that if she`s cheated before, she will cheat you! Just forget her YOU SAD GIT.

[teag1rl]

aw, dma, take no notice of MoFo-he really is.

I've read your other post too and really do feel for you. If I was you I'd cut off all contact with this girl, she is telling you she cares but she's just playing you and hurting you. You've really got to forget about her (easier said than done I know-take up new hobby or new sport, make new friends and keep busy). It will get easier I promise and us girls are not all psychotic witches!!

[jimboy2]

they are right no-one who is right for you would claim to not be in love with you. Sounds simple when i write it like that doesnt it? i cant give you an answer but i can help you get over her first cut all ties and i mean ALL ties no phone, email face to face talks. get rid of everything she has at your place dont leave something at hers so you have to pop round for it. now once youve done that if your like me there are 3 stages 1 is hurt yes you'll be lonely and feel like **** but thats when you go play football with your mates go out get drunk and let one of them carry you home get out of "relationship mode" your free and single act like it next stage for me was anger this is the most important stage when your angry with her what you need to do is redirect the anger. for example i was angry that i didnt have good teeth and was to scared to go to dentist so got that fixed i wasnt fit, i joined gym and led a healthy lifestyle and what you will notice is as you do all this she will go further and further back in your list of priorities and finally last stage is happy! hope that helps. otherwise go back plead and be her beatch for the rest of your life!