The Dude From The Big Lewboski.
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.This poem always makes me weep, its by Edna St Vincent Millay
Time does not bring relief; you all have lied
Who told me time would ease me of my pain!
I miss him in the weeping of the rain;
I want him at the shrinking of the tide;
The old snows melt from every mountain-side,
And last year's leaves are smoke in every lane;
But last year's bitter loving must remain
Heaped on my heart, and my old thoughts abide
There are a hundred places where I fear
To go,�so with his memory they brim
And entering with relief some quiet place
Where never fell his foot or shone his face
I say, "There is no memory of him here!"
And so stand stricken, so remembering him!
I read this today which is very thought provoking if anyone cares for elderly parents.
They will disappear, those parents who are taking so long to make way for you. That mother whose old age imposes duties on you which you find inconvenient; they will disappear, those careful watchers over your childhood, those lovely protectors of your adolescence; they will disappear, and you will search in vain for better friends; they will disappear and as soon as they are no longer here, they will strike you in a new light because time which makes older those who are alive, makes them seem younger as soon as death has taken them away.