Your thread had been dragged so far off-course that I think the Site Editor decided to remove it. Hopefully, the sensible answers you received will have answered your question.
I'm one of the moderators here but it wasn't me who removed it. However I do seem to recall seeing your question (although I can't recall what it was about) and regarding it with suspicion because it looked rather odd in some way. (Unfortunately, a large number of questions from new members seem, for example, to be part of a spamming technique).
Perhaps a reworded question from you might be worth a try?
It was untenable because 99% of the responded believed that it is impossible to earn that amount of money without her (Taddbeta's) parents knowing. Either it was a typo, a white lie or the truth. I kept well out of that one, the sharks were already circling.
Taddbeta: We are a community, unfortunately sometimes a vicious one :)
I have to ask, while no one else is jumping on your back; do you really make thirty thousand pounds a month? If so, please tell me your secret because I'd be happy with earning a 10% of that.
it is, taddbeta. It's disparate in views, at times, helpful and full of advice, supportive, commiserative when necessary, sometimes lunatic, sometimes very funny, sometimes tempers flare but, hey, that's just like life. All age groups as well, all political colours, religious or aetheist ones, lawyers, doctors, artists, mathematicians, shop folk, factory folk, even a meterologist and the cranks!