A very close friend of many many years began an affair with a man 20yrs her senior, 4 days after first having sex with him she began having 'SYMPTOMS'.
she confided in me a little later on that she had been to the quacks with sore lesions down below, headache and flu like symptoms, where she ws told she had herpes.
I was very concerned about him having passed this on to her and told her he was prob not a gooden. when she told him he was not at all best pleased of her telling me to say the least.
So when she had her visit to the gum clinic amazingly it isn't Herpes after all, it was thrush?
you could say its none of my business but i am worried she is not taking this seriously and is a bit starry eyed as recently after she had to take her own 4yr old daughter to the doctors with a rash downstairs fearing, even though she herself was given the all clear, it was herpes.
may u come to these related sites like "herpesanddating.net" or
"DatingHerpesSingles.com" for help, many hereps people there they experienced more and know more ideas
take care!good luck!