Libido

[tinkerbell23]

Is there anything that can be taken or prescribed for ladies who have zero sex drive !!?

[tinkerbell23]

Thanks zm but i didnt expect a miracle answer my friend....

More a chat or a suggestion.

The things you resort to when you are desparate for help eh?

You input has been most helpfull.

[tinkerbell23]

Used to blame my pill mazie then got coil...now no contraception at all....and still feeling the same way,

Happily newly married....was like this before.

Put it down to low mood also....depressed last year which im not sure im fully over.

Ive put off trying for a baby for a while....but this will be a HUGE problem and it is already x

[tinkerbell23]

I never used to be like this....its awful x

[mazie]

Aww sorry Tinks. If you have a good GP perhaps a visit might be the thing to do. Good luck xx

[tinkerbell23]

Thank you M!! Xx

[Quizproquo]

For anyone who has not experienced this, it is similar to male impotency, however for men it usually a physical issue and the desire is still there.
For women, not only is the desire not there, it's almost an active bodily rejection. I think this is made worse by the guilt and stress you feel about the whole thing. I love my partner and I hate that I'm like this. I'm sure you do too Tinkerbell.

[Zacs-Master]

As I said, the 'person' needs a psychological / medical evaluation. Not a bunch of half arsed opinions / potentially useless (dangerous?) suggestions from people on a public forum.

[Quizproquo]

The person can have many Zacs and still not get an answer because the simple answer is no, there is very little help out there for severe loss of libido in women, unless you know any different of course?

[tinkerbell23]

I think you have missed the point ZM.

Thanks Quiz......its a tricky situ! X

[Zacs-Master]

Many what?

[woofgang]

there is a report of a study here which says that viagra works for women.....
http://abcnews.go.com/GMA/story?id=124569&page=1
maybe the person could chat with their GP?

[Zacs-Master]

Chat with their GP. Now there's an idea. Why didn't I think of that?

[Mamyalynne]

Hi Tinks, your low mood and any medications you are on for that will of course play a part in this.

Mention it again at your next GP appointment and hopefully they can suggest some help.

[Zacs-Master]

I give up.

[tinkerbell23]

As previously mentioned GP app has been made.

Hi mamya im not taking any medication at the moment!!

Woof thank you ill read that xx

[Noe-schitt]

This may be worth a read
http://www.webmd.boots.com/women/features/when-desire-dies-bringing-your-sex-drive-back-life
Try not to worry about it that will only make it worse

[Mamyalynne]

Take your time and relax, you know where to find folk to speak to if you want - bye for now.

[tinkerbell23]

Thank you so much....its not an ideal subject!!

Noe-...... I love your name!!!!! Thanks ill read xx

[Noe-schitt]

We went through the same problem many years ago after the birth of our first child and it was natural to think it had something to do with that but it actually turned out to be a matter of TRUST. She had in the past been badly let her down and with the birth of our first child she felt vulnerable so really it was just a case of reinforcing trust and involved both of us.
It may be conceived as embarrassing or not to be talked about but talking about it and getting the correct advice is the only way to resolve it. I do wish you the best