Confess

[MrSoul]

If you were in love with a married woman at work for so many months and she knew it and was OK with it, would it be OK to confess your feelings to her since you are leaving the business in a weeks time ? There have been no real verbal communication between the two, just greetings, smiles and stares all along.

[Mamyalynne]

What would you hope your confession to achieve?

[MrSoul]

Mamyalynne - confessing feelings before leaving, to show genuine admiration.

[bednobs]

if there has been no communication, how would one know "she knew it and was OK with it"

[MrSoul]

Bednobs - cos she would always smile back and show in her expressions that she was also interested.

[Mamyalynne]

On the day you leave, simply say 'It's been fabulous working with you' then move on.

[MrSoul]

Couldn't i just tell her that I love her ?

[Mamyalynne]

No, behave.

[scorpiojo]

No...but you think she knows?

[scorpiojo]

Is this another married woman?

[tonyav]

Love or lust, MrSoul ?.

[MrSoul]

ok, but she drives me crazy

[Captain2]

Don't put her marriage at risk just for your selfishness - walk away.

[MrSoul]

Its just that I often glance at her and smile. Once I stopped doing it, and she noticed it, she would always start distracting me again. So understood she doesn't mind me admiring her

[bednobs]

what a good job you're leaving then!

[MrSoul]

yes, so i thought i'd ome upfront and confess that Im going and always liked her.

[scorpiojo]

No need to confess if she knows....

[gness]

Noooo, MrS.......say nothing....smile and leave in an air of mystery....much more interesting....x

[DTCwordfan]

Stick to your bills for the sheets and whatever with Johnson's the cleaners; it's a lot cheaper and less disruptive.

[MrSoul]

aww..ok, but i will miss her

[EDDIE51]

Is this the same married woman you were asking about last month?