Confess

[MrSoul]

If you were in love with a married woman at work for so many months and she knew it and was OK with it, would it be OK to confess your feelings to her since you are leaving the business in a weeks time ? There have been no real verbal communication between the two, just greetings, smiles and stares all along.

[Peter Pedant]

no - leave it

have a cold shower and watch 'Brief Encounter' ( hankie needed )

[EDDIE51]

Your last post on the subject
http://www.theanswerbank.co.uk/Body-and-Soul/Relationships-and-Dating/Question1516991.html

[MrSoul]

At one point i thought i would apologize to her, in case i made her mad over the months or making her feeling unomfy ?

[MrSoul]

oh EDDIE51, im putting that behind me, leave it out ! Help me with this ?

[scorpiojo]

You say the woman knows you're in love with her and is ok with it, so why do you need to confess?

[DTCwordfan]

divebuddy, his butt is probably too hairy to get a clear pic!

[Lunol]

She's married? Then leave her alone and find yourself a single woman to "Feel crazy about and keep your "Confessions" to yourself.

You'll forget about her after she's gone and don't you feel you deserve a single woman who can give you all her love instead or do you suffer from low esteem?

[-Talbot-]

''There have been no real verbal communication between the two, just greetings, smiles and stares all along.''






And you think telling her you love her is a good idea?

She will think you're a weird creep.

[elliemay1]

Just wondering what age you are. You sound a bit naive and immature.

[Ellipsis]

"Mr Soul" ... Mr R Soul, by any chance? ....

Move job, say nothing and save yourself a lot of embarrassment and grief ...

[Khandro]

" she knew it [love] and was OK with it,"
How do you know that if there has been no verbal communication?

[woofgang]

Grow up, shut up, move on.

[beso]

Would be a huge mistake. Fantasies are best left as fantasies.

[murraymints]

ditto Woofy ! get a grip !!!

[Sqad]

Love? LOVE?
You are leaving in a weeks time, so ask her out and put it down to experience.....a thrill....something to spice your miserable life up.
You never know, you may enjoy the experience.
If she declines, then it is her loss.

[murraymints]

SQAD!! naughty boy....lol xx

[EDDIE51]

You really need to stop your fascination with married women! and find someone who is free to return your interest. This is the second married woman you have asked advice about in the last 5 weeks!

[andy-hughes]

Mr Soul - what you have is a crush on this woman.

She has noticed it, and is probably a little flattered, but that is all - she has given you absolutely no indication that she sees you as anything other than a colleague at work.

If you were to declare your 'love' for her, you will embarrass and upset her, and I am sure you don't want her last memory of you to be negative.

Attraction in the work place is perfectly normal and very common, but please don't make the mistake of seeing it for something it is not - and it is not love.

Hopefully you can simply remember this lady as a pleasant distraction, and find someone real who is willing to embark on a relationship with you.

Good luck.