Where are all the men ?

[Demongirlie]

I've just been chatting with my friend and both of us have been single for some time. And we were wondering where all the men ? All we've noticed lately are boys in men's clothing. Surely there amust be men out there who are intelligent, attractive, who have good sense of humour. Are we just being picky ? Has anyone else been experiencing this ??

[Zorr0]

God, what happened on this thread after my opening line.

Ladies, chill out a little and lets start again.

For the record Im 30 odd and intelligent (letters after my name to prove any doubters).

Lets have a bit of fun banter instead of whats been going on earlier in the thread.

I thought Jimboy did nowt wrong to deserve his treatment.

This could have been a fun filled thread.

[charliebaps]

Can anybody remember Gooner-badge?? He would have this all sorted out by now!

[Demongirlie]

So Zorro are you as your name implies, saving the poor and opressed with your skill as a swordsman ???

[whiskeysheri]

0Bonio! He's lovely and my type too- nice and tall! x

[Demongirlie]

Obonio, great pics, but I have to know who's the guy with the impressive beard ???

[OBonio]

That's my brother-in-law. Likes motor bikes believe it or not.

[Englishbird]

Obonio, is that your site? Whoever's Daughter is Amy, she share's my birthday! She'll be trouble, but fabulous obviously ;o)

I think your friend is a hit with us AB ladies! lol, there'll be fighting in the aisles tonight.

[whiskeysheri]

In Bletchley Tesco, Milton Keynes , you're supposed to go around with bananas in your basket a certain way up if you're single, so people know to approach you!! x

[Demongirlie]

Sounds like the supermarkets are definately tackling single-dom as a niche market. Wish some of my locals would do the same, sounds like fun!

Tho I was reading the other day that statistically speaking that we woman outnumber men 3:1. So maybe all the good ones have been pulled!

[OBonio]

EnglishBird, Amy is mine and Mrs OBonio's pride and joy :o) Trouble? Well, you don't have kids to lead a quiet life... jsut hopw she doesn't take after her uncle...

John is going to be god father when we get her christened. If that's not a shining reference for a trustworthy chap, I don't know what is...

[jimboy2]

well i have been away for a couple of hours and im glad to see that there has been some intelligent responses to what has been said. one point i will make about my age and what i have experienced, you are completely correct i am 23 and i only know what i know at 23, i mean that how can i possibly know anything more than that! so what i said was in jest it was taken by most reasonable to be in jest and if it is an indication of my age then good!

[Englishbird]

In fact, she was born exactly 30 years to the day after me. I wish her all the best :o) 'our' birthday is on the cusp of Cancer (water) and Leo (fire) which can lead to some ... er... interesting times :o), I know it's a load of tosh, but it fits my personality completely, very understanding one min, and completely irrational the next ... what do you mean that's all women?

Demongirlie, you're depressing me now, do we really outnumber them that much!?

"Tell me Bridge, why are there so many single gals in their 30's these days?"

[jimboy2]

now demongirlie since i have to be all serious, here is my answer. where are all the men?

They are everywhere, in the street doing their shopping in libraries looking at books and all of them are all wondering "where are all the women" the truth is we are all so scared of speaking to each other and the embaressment of trying to start a conversation and being rejected in a public place is what stops people initiating conversation. so the next time you see a bloke and he smiles at you be brave enought to say hi, at first there will be some awkwardness as he realises he is being spoken to but my guess is he will say hi back and there you go you have met someone new. i wish i could live by my own advice as i really hate how solitary life can be. I have friends and family but i want new people to speak to all the time so go for it, be brave. there hows that for something deep and meaningful?

[teag1rl]

awww, I've just been observing so far, but jimboy2 brought a tear to my eye then, so felt compelled to say so. See-he is a sweetie really!

[Se7en]

This is an interesting thread.

How bout we all have a party and have a bit of fun.

All round to my place.

[noxlumos]

Precisely teagirl, as I was trying to say jimboy is obviously a great guy. If people think enjoying yourself is immature then I, at 45 am very happy to be still immature and I'm glad my wife at 37 is equally stupid. My first wife however, thought life was all about how things look and sophistication and is now "happily" divorced wondering why no-one wants to go out with her because that translates to a lot of normal men as being a pain in the a**e. I think it's testimony to how nice ( and mature and understanding incidentally) jimboy is that he's taken the very nasty comments of harpyface as he has, who for some reason seems to think being rude is a "wind up" and something to "giggle" over. Glad that making his pleasant answers the butt of your jokes and dismissing him because of his numerical age pleases you, just find it ironic that he's the one being labelled immature.

[Se7en]

There are some people on this site who deserve to be single.

Why oh why do so many women go on the offensive.

Funny banter is what its all about. That "Happy" bird. What was all that about !

Ladies I know we're all B*stards and all that. But if you want to meet a decent bloke, be a liitle more pleasant. "Sugar & spice and all things nice"!!!!

[zara 4]

But isn't that the problem,where are all the decent men?

[Se7en]

I am decent

[zara 4]

You must be the last one,the rest have all disappeared into the twilight zone!