I Wonder Why This Number Is Rising So...
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.Settling down is not for everyone. Don't force yourself -ya know? I would'nt analyze it too much, take it one day at a time, and if it comes down to you really needing to make a decision to be with him and settle down or to move on,.. then deal with it then.
I definetly believe you can go back successfully, as long as you have good communication and the strong building blocks ..you'll be fine.
Zomers- You can't be sure that you won't stuff it up this time. We can't be sure of anything in this world,..but we can try. You can try to live this type of life in a monotonouse relationship, and if it's not right for you..then you'll know eventually. When we plan things out, I think we are more likely to be disappointed.
I worry about things like this too. Im 24 and am totally head over heels in love with my boyfriend of 5 years...,but am I ready to start a life with him, and kids? I just don't know? How do we know for sure about anything?...Well we just can't. Life is about taking risks, and living outside of your comfort zone.
A big thanks to everyone above for the advice. I must admit I went home from work after posting this and thought 'aaargh, what have I done, asking for advice on a website?' but when you're to close to a problem it's hard to see it objectively, which you all have done. That's also whyI haven't talked to any of my friends about it.
dancealot13 makes a lot of sense, think I'm going to try and relax about it, not put any presure on myself and see how it develops naturally.
Have fun with your ex, life's too short to be bogged down by worry....
Does he know how much you've been appreciating his company? Has you or him mentioned anything about what went wrong the first time round...maybe you could somehow mention to him (tactfully) about what went wrong the first time round and that now you're both(hopefully) more mature you can deal with anything that did happen in an adult way.
Be open and honest and enjoy yourself....Not many people get second chances so just go with the flow.
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