down in the dumps

[stylinsam]

im really down in the dumps today feel like the whole world hates me i feel sick and i feel like curling up in a ball and going to sleep for a few days does anyone no what can cheer me up?

[raysparx]

I don't hate you,I think you are lovely,i'll pop round and give you a cuddle, blimey hope you are female!!!

cheer up it's nearly summer,clean the barbie off and we can all have a party in your garden!!!

[stylinsam]

yes im female darling your idea seems good to me

[mccfluff]

sorry you're feeling sad, i've got monday blues, but not as bad as you i think, try having a good gossip with you mates, big glass of wine and snuggle down and watch a fave dvd, that does the trick for me, if you're at work like me, keep answerbank on it puts a smile on my face.

[stylinsam]

unfortunatly im at work so i best staying with answerbank aint i xx

[mccfluff]

only another 6 hours to go tho, then i'm going to the pub to meet my mates after work, you can join us and/or i'll raise a glass to you

[stylinsam]

pleasssssssssse can i come with you iv got no money though so youll have to be a gentleman if you are a male?

and buy me one ,mwhax

[alijangra]

I hope this does not sound harsh but be thankful for what you have. I have just been watchig City Hospital and there is a 16 year old girl who is now blind and unable to walk following a brain tumour. She is extremely happy, cheerful and determined. She made me feel bad for feeling fed up and bored today and I have decided to go out on my bicycle and enjoy the sunshine.

[mccfluff]

i'm female but i'm sure i can treat you to a drink or two!

[stylinsam]

yeah course you can mccfluff sorry didnt realise you were female apologies :o)

[Craig007]

Sam i saw this notice at a work colleagues desk the other week and it made me smile, hope it works for you as well.

When you feel that nobody loves you, and you think that nobody cares about you. You feel that the whole world is ignoring you, and you think that everyone is jealous of you. Just look in the mirror and ask yourself

AM I JUST TOO SEXY?

[stylinsam]

cheers craig thats put a smile on my face.

[whiskeysheri]

Morning Sammy!!

Big kisses and cuddles from me- I love you to bits, I honestly think you're fab. So gimme a smile xxxx

[hammerman]

FAO alijangra

Sometimes, things such as depression, even in the mildest form, is an illness resulting from a chemical imbalance in the brain.
I'm nearly 40 and i've always been the life and soul of the party...cracking jokes, making a fool of myself and generally being mr happy go lucky.

That was until 3 weeks ago when there was an incident with a work colleague which resulted in me having panic attacks and moderate depression. I've some mates with depression and my wife suffers from it after having 2 nasty miscarriages and losing her mum.

Now believe me, when you are depressed, the words "oh snap out of it, there are far worse people in the world than you" do not cut a lot of ice....believe me.

So stylinsam.....i can really sympathise with how you feel. Maybe you should see your Dr. Excersie is very useful at making you feel better too.....i'm hopefully off to the gymn soon.

Good luck girl....hope you feel better

[stylinsam]

im only smiling for you whiskey cos i think your fab have you read my thread before this one that is why im stressed big kisses back to you babe X

[ktlou]

Hey Stylinsam - don't be down in the dumps! Friday is a few short days away, then we get a long weekend! I'm sure your gorgeous and everyone loves you! By the way - what did you wear out on Friday night? Surely you had a good time then? You should buy yourself some flowers and have them on your desk - flowers always make me happy, even when they aren't from someone else! Who said you can't buy them for yourself! xx

[ktlou]

ooops, sorry sweetie - I just read your earlier posting - sorry to mention Friday! Obviously it didn't go well! If you love your boyfriend and he loves you - then his family shouldn't matter to you. They'll get over it, they always do and they shouldn't come between you and your love!! My boyf's family are sometimes difficult people to get on with, but we've been together for 4 and a half years!! love is the best thing - that should be what makes you smile!!!! xxx

[whiskeysheri]

I just read it, Sam, hun. (I'm having an AB day today in my PJs- off work with a tummy bug).

It sounds like you love your boyf. to pieces, so don't end it just 'coz of the barny/ fist fight? His mum'll forget it soon enough. She wouldn't have said that things were okay if they weren't or weren't going to be.

Go home, order some nosh and have lots of cuddles on the sofa with you man. Love ya loads xxx

[stylinsam]

as a matter of fact friday went well it was early hours saturday morning wen evrything kicked of so up until then i had a good time. i wore a strappy black top tight fitted faded blue jeans and some sexy kitten heals.

i went out 4 dinner first then met up with some mates in a club and thats wen it started to go pear shaped.

[stylinsam]

cheers whiskey mate your an angel you always cheer me up hope your feeling better soon babeXXXXXXXX

[mccfluff]

hi sam, hope you've cheered up a bit now, its nearly the end of work, so have a good night xx