I bumped into an ex girl friend after 5 months. She gave me a long big hug and said she would come and see me.(She was straight).5 months ago she said she wanted to be indapendant.Before I hooked up with her she han been through the worst possible thing that can happen to a women. I'm shure you get the idea. She has cried in my arms,taken more drugs than I can count and drunk like a fish.With all the after effects that go with that-So it has come as a surprise that she did the above. I'm confused. Would love your thuoghts. Thanks.