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Yes I am in counselling work to a degree.
Your humour at the end does sum it up nicely. 2 grand??? Yes, I know to some it is a life line, a lot of money. But 2 lousey grand is not worth getting your knickers in a twist is it?
So money is a problem. What do I say. Deal with it. There is a welfare system, you won't starve. There will just have to be a lot of cutbacks.
So yes, EVERYTHING is black and white unless you go looking for the grey areas.
W-M, I have explained about the name.
Minxie, that's what I and everyone who knows me want to know. The way I see it is he lied to his lass when they started going out and is trying hard to keep the game going. Instead I get his lass irate on the phone at the slightest sign of a disagreement. He teaches my daughter silly poems about me, calls me names infront of her. Tells her how I am bad for not letting her live with him dispite the fact that he never asks for her on holidays. He droped the custody case and asked for sat/sun visitation. Now he is telling everyone how he asked for more yet I refused him. Loads of things most are pretty small but they all add up.
He sounds like a right p***k. Jealous because your little girl lives with you. I think you are a saint letting him even see your daughter. I woudnt.
I have to get to bed now, as I have 4 kids to get ready for school runs! But you are doing a great job. Being a mum is a major achievement.
Wake up tomorrow and think of one good thing you are going to do today. Sit down and make another list. My house is full of them. I can sympathise with you on so many points. Night night, take care and keep in touch xx
minxie, here i sit without a problem in the world. Yes, bully for me you may say, but surely my advice is therefore excellent.
As Freud didn't say "the worse thing you can do is share your problems with people with problems"
Mmmmmmmm, the average person could probably name one clinical psychologist, that being Raj Persaud. I think he coined "get a grip therapy" didn't he?
So helpful or not, when I follow the lines of somebody who is good enough to be on Trisha (irony) I must be reading something right.
PS If you examine the time I posted my last answer, I wouldn't have known about your explanation of a different name would I?
therefore, "look outside the box" before making a statement. Anothe therapy called post-incident recognitive manipulation does exactly that. But it's 00.42hrs and I will fluff the theory up!
W-M, evolution theory would collapse based on your principles. But I suppose if your life works that way than good for you.
BTW, just coz my life sucks at the mo, doesn't mean I can't have a sense of humour and laugh at it. And on this note may I suggest that if you are in something like counselling than you should pay more attention to what people say. I asked for a few grand, not just 2.
Good nite for now.
Mmmmmm, I am not a Darwinist nor a philosopher, yet I fail to see how exactly evolution theory would collapse under my ideals.
Surely, the "survival of the fittest" idiom is the basis of such ideas.
Mmmmmm, I stay fit in mind and body--- I survive. Confusing.
Further, a few usually means about two. If not, certainly a small number. Therefore 4 grand. not a big deal is it?
Now you are either quite humourous OR take delight in nit picking and finding fault in replies. I hope the former, if not your life deserves to suck. If you are going to patronise me saying I don't listen, then fine. But remember my life is good, in fact very good, and yours should be too. but is it isn't, is it?
If you want health advice, would you seek information from a smoking, overweight alcoholic with boils or would you ask a healthy, glowing slim person who exercises.
If you want mechanical advice, do you ask a mechanic or somebody who drives a banger in which he always calls out the AA
If you want advice on the Islamic faith do you ask an Iman or a rabbi????
I rest my case..............................
dancealot if you actually read my posts, I fail to see what point you are making?
Yes 4 grand is a lot of money. 4 hundred quid is a lot of money to some folk, but it isn't worth crying over.
Secondly Freud was/is a joke. My quote clearly said As Freud DIDN'T say.I believe he quote is from The Jeremy Kyle Show. (Sarcasm, foy your info!) Read before you reply sweetheart. X
Well I am aware that "the survival of the fittest" concept was actually coined by Herbert Spencer looking at fiscal survival in an ever changing world. And I swear on my childrens eyes that I didn'y google that. But obvioulsy your GCCE pyschology far out sizes any formal qualification I have obtained, so I won't comment.
janedOe, without being harsh, try being a bit nicer and less argumentative and then, and only then life may seem a little more appetizing.
One makes their own beds in this world (well my cleaner does actually, but you don't wish to hear how well my life is). I wish you all the best and whatever your "issues" are, I am confident that you will seek solutions to overcome them.
Take care chicken. X