women problems

[Dan Glebitts]

(bit like steves Q below) i have a gf at the mo' but recently and unusually i have been attracting quite a few ladies, all of whom im quite good friends and im quite liking all this new attention i've been getting. we have flirted here and there but gone no further than hugs. me and my gfs relationship is on the rocks at the moment but i dont know whether to split with her and make a new start with someone else or stick with her and hope for the best....what should i do?

[Froggy_Queen]

Answered your own question there Dan. The fact you're even asking tells you all you need to know! If you thought it was worth the effort of working on you wouldn't even be considering dumping her.

On the other hand you are experiencing what I call 'hot buttered muffin syndrome' you have a gf and therefore everyone wants a piece of you. Guarantee as soon as you're single the attention goes away.

If you really love your gf then stick with her and ride the storm out, all relationships have rocky patches, but you're young, and I seem to recall that you are, you want to don't tie yourself to a realtionship for the sake of having one, life is for living afterall! Just remember the grass isn't always greener!

[steve208]

hey dan...sori to answer ur q prob shld not do as ive asked a q tho tis always easier to sort someone else prob than ur own!

Anyway cld i ask for some more info?! how long have u been with ur gf?

Do you feel / know that any of these girls want a relationship?

[steve208]

Dan just to say you seem to be a bit of a legand on here!! well i think you are anyway. I have only recently joined but am already slightly addicted to AB tho some ppl can be quite nasty at times tis usually ok and ive had v gd advice from ppl on here.

[Dan Glebitts]

cheers steve! but in answer to froggy these girls who seem attracted to me dont know that im with anyone and they think im single. i make people laugh alot but recently my appearance has changed for the better and this may also be part of the reason.
in answer to steve, ive been going out with my gf for about four months now but we hardly see each other because she is always working!! i havnt seen her in weeks and probably wont for weeks to come, but i feel odd being in between and it is possible for me to go out with girls just as lovely but i always have to say things like 'i have a gf' or i have to at least keep this in mind... ah well...and the girls who seem to like me all seem very flirty and 'seem' to want more than just a bit of hanky panky....

but cheers for your coment steve

[steve208]

well dan didnt mean any offence with askin if you knew they wanted more.

Can i ask how your appearence has changed for the better....i could do with that...the ladies tell me im not uigly but i dont thinka lot no my mug so what did you do?!

[Dan Glebitts]

the miracle of age....and good eating. i aint done anything special but i just eat better in general. i rarely excercise but try when i can, i luv excercise but with the weather like it is and no gyms around its a bit tricky. I usually go for bike rides when i can with a few mates but i dont really know what i've done to look better, i just feel good 'cos im not used to attention. :-)

[steve208]

good for you dan.

I have a wedding to go to in two months but cant get lazy arse into gear so can look good for the wedding!

[Dan Glebitts]

thanks steve, im sure you'll manage it. just watch the meals and i've found less tv helps strangely enough. i havnt watched telly for months now and only in these last months have i lost weight and look and feel much more amazing. its strange really but i swear it works....i was never overweight but used to have a little extra on me than i should've but its just dropped off....miracle!

[kazminx]

Ahhhh you guys are so cute!!!

[Dan Glebitts]

cheers, kazminx....unfortunately i dont have short styled hair and a goatee :-P