Do you think im in the wrong?

[PinkFizz]

Lastnight I went to a nightclub with my b/f to see a group playing and had a great time.About 2am we were starving and went into a takeaway place opposite to grab a bite to eat.It was packed,and as my b/f tried to order at the counter he accidentally knocked a guy who happened to be very drunk and built like a house!! This guy turned round and raised his fist to my guy,my b/f did the same so me,being an idiot,jumped inbetween them.But that made things worse,instead of the other guy calming down he started spitting into my face to fuck off,with all his little hangers on telling me I didnt know who i was messing with.B/F behind me was just watching the whole thing.I was so mad that I told this guy he couldnt talk to me like that - and he hit me and I fell flat on my back.After a min or two I was lifted up and sat on a chair,offered water etc and the guy was thrown out.Meanwhile b/f went up to counter,proceeded to get his food and we walked back to where we were staying,upon entering the room he went mad at me and said I should have left him to sort it and I could have got stabbed or something.I got upset and said I was trying to help but he just said I asked for what I had got and then went to bed,leaving me crying my eyes out.Today he has woken up and not mentioned it!!

Was I wrong in what I did and do I mention it again?

[Dollie]

Pinky - you don't have to keep this jerk - there are plenty more bubbles in an Aero ! Good Hunting chick x

[888sally888]

You deserve better x

[ELVIS68]

While he`s asleep on the sofa, write the word TOSSER backwards on his forehead,then when he looks in the mirror he`ll take the hint

[*Zeus*]

when he is asleep ...do a poo on his chest

[sexyrussian]

You should have left the boys to it.That way you would not have got heart.Lets hope you learn your lesson next time.I think he has EVERY right to be annoyed with you.You have to see his side of the argument aswell

[gessoo]

Doesn't matter who was right or who was wrong. Whether your boyfriend disagreed with your action or not, he should have come to your aid after you were thumped. I would feel really upset too PinkFizz. You needed his supported, he ignored you and went on to order a meal. Really nasty of him, regardless of whether his pride was hurt or not. He needs to grow up!

[Slooow_Jo]

He stood & watch someone hit you??

Kick him to the kerb!!! SR you need to set ya sights higher hun if you can agree with him :(

[PinkFizz]

Elvis/Zeus - lolol

Sexyrussian - yes I agree that I should probably left them to it - hindsight is a wonderful thing - but whether I was wrong or not - to leave others to help me up and then carry on getting his food??

[JustSia]

Joko, are you around? You made me paranoid. Have you noticed the absence of spaces and the same mistakes or am I going crazy and Ruski is haunting the AB?

[kazza12345]

maybe your b/f felt emasculated by you? like he needs a woman to sort his enemies out for him - his prides probably taken a dent!

or maybe he was totally paranoidly scared for you?

[gessoo]

PinkFizz, I'm sending you a big hug over the miles (very few of them). Chin up my dear. You deserve better treatment than this. I can just imagine what my husband would do to any bloke that hit me, regardless of whether I acted stupidly or not.

[PinkFizz]

I dont know what to think.All I know is that instinct took over and I didnt want to stand there and watch my b/f and this guy beating each other to a pulp as then the police would have been called etc etc.

I wasnt nasty to the other guy - I was just trying to tell him that he wasnt pushed on purpose,and yes I prob didnt help but my intentions were good,and I still think the b/f was a total sh** in how he acted afterwards.

[whiffey]

b/f is a copmplete wimp .should of stuck up for you not behaved like a total pranny .so what the other guy could of had a knofe but you need a guy who has spunk not worms for brains.

[pinksmartie]

Pink, your bf sounds like an ungrateful s0d (can u say that on AB? lol). I'm afraid if i was in your shoes i would have punched the bf after the way he acted. He just doesn't sound worth it.

[littleoldme]

I won't condemn you for getting involved if all you were trying to do was calm things down. So we have one male (I won't dignify him by calling him a 'man') who hits women and another who allows it to happen while quivering in the background.

PinkFizz - it sounds to me like you've got bigger cojones than the pair of them (metaphorically speaking, of course) :-). I hope you're OK.

[loopyc]

hi pink you still there? are you ok?

[Aliceband]

I cant believe he then went to order his food, after seeing some guy first swearing in your face, and then thumping you.

No, you were not in the wrong PinkFizz, from where I see it, you were just trying to stop a fight, and your boyfriend should be proud of you for that.

As for him then having a go at you! And today sleeping on the sofa and not mentioning it!

Go and glue his eyelids together with superglue.

[PinkFizz]

Hi guys - (hello looby hun).B/f is awake now and acting as if nothing has happened and in a fairly good mood.I know i need to broach the subject but dont need another row.Oh why is life so difficult!!

[purpose]

I know i would have done the same as you - right or wrong.

BUT..... someone ELSE helped you up AND your bf went on to order food AND then had a go at you.........?

Woah... hang on there.... WRONG WRONG WRONG!!!

[PinkFizz]

Hi Purpose honey.Tell me about ot - im pretty p***ed off with him to say the least.I keep telling myself it was coz he was drunk he wasnt thinking straight but.....