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Help! Can I trust him - Part 2
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Well, I confronted him. I decided to be honest (hey, someone ought to be) so I just told him I'd read his texts and he immediately knew that i'd seen something from this girl.
Apparently he has a history with her but he'd already decided before I confronted him that he was just going to be friends with her...ie...he wasn't cheating anymore.
I believe him but now all the good things that have happened seem like a lie.
Can't decide if it's worth trying.
Apparently he has a history with her but he'd already decided before I confronted him that he was just going to be friends with her...ie...he wasn't cheating anymore.
I believe him but now all the good things that have happened seem like a lie.
Can't decide if it's worth trying.
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.very awkward.He may now just decide to be more secrective as you have been thru his phone,and then you wouldnt know anyway would you.But you couldn't have trusted him 100% to have looked at his phone in the first place.I think that there will be an underlying lack of trust there between you both now,which is going to be hard to change.
Why do you still want to be with a man who has cheated on you? Surely you deserve better than that? If you stay with him hunny, all you are doing is showing him that he can do whatever the hell he wants and you will take it. My advice is ditch him and find someone who will appreciate you for who you are, love you and be faithful x
Hi JK
if you look back at my posts you will see that recently i was in the same situation. i read his messages and confronted him.... well actually i went mad at him... but either way i decided after seeing his reaction to give him another chance.... this though is his only chance.
so far so good though hun and i still love him and he loves me xx
good luck xx
if you look back at my posts you will see that recently i was in the same situation. i read his messages and confronted him.... well actually i went mad at him... but either way i decided after seeing his reaction to give him another chance.... this though is his only chance.
so far so good though hun and i still love him and he loves me xx
good luck xx
Cheers littlemissx!
I saw him again today and am feeling much better.
He said he didn't take 'us' very seriously for the first wee while, but he has loved being with me for the past month or so and he says he knows that he won't be any more than friends with her, and that he won't be doing anything with anyone else either.
Maybe I'm being naive but I really want to believe him.
I saw him again today and am feeling much better.
He said he didn't take 'us' very seriously for the first wee while, but he has loved being with me for the past month or so and he says he knows that he won't be any more than friends with her, and that he won't be doing anything with anyone else either.
Maybe I'm being naive but I really want to believe him.