Female needing guidance

[China Doll]

Ok, I'm 27 years old and I should know this but I've been out of the single life loop for a while and have today been inspired to get back in to it by certain AB threads ;0)

so....

How do you actually tell if a bloke fancies you? Especially if they're shy!

Cheers
China xx

[PinkFizz]

now what threads do you mean!!lol.

Probably a question for the boys to answer,but its usually in the eyes!

[raysparx]

Hi china,

I think pink has got it sussed,there is often a sort of glint in the eye, and a quick look away if you think youv'e been caught looking, You won't have a problem finding a bloke, you are far to nice to be on your own long, take care, Ray xx

[China Doll]

This strange lady started a very inspirational thread which reminded me what I've been missing out on ;0)

See I think that too but I'm never sure. I can always tell when blokes fancy someone else but just never me... I'm pretty crap at this for my age really... ho hum!

[China Doll]

Awww shucks Ray, thanks... I'm blushing now! xx

[raysparx]

Hi china, see how easy it is, youv'e pulled already, where we going ????? xx

[PinkFizz]

Your'e a real honey ! If you see a guy look at you and then he quickly looks away when you notice,thats a def give-away.

So is him dribbling on your shoes but thats a tad more obvious!!

[Supernick]

Ray and Pink are right with the eyes. I'll be looking at someone, and then as soon as they look over, I'll look away immediately embarrassed at being caught. But then I'll have to look back again to see if she's still looking. If she is, then it's time to offer a smile.....
That's usually when you find out that he/she was looking at someone behind you

[raysparx]

now,now pink, dribbling ? from the mouth I hope !!!

are you ok pink ? xx

[China Doll]

Lol! Thanks guys... Ok, lets just pretend I haven't been talking about sex all day and imagine that I'm actually quite shy so I don't necessarilly do the whole looking back thing until I'm sure they're not looking! That's not good is it?!

[raysparx]

It will all evolve china, just relax, be yourself, don't go looking for someone,someone very special will walk into your life, honest it will happen,just give it a little time, good luck and take carte, Ray xx

[raysparx]

Don't take the carte, take care, alot safer !!!

[China Doll]

Oh... that might have been cake on the carte! Cheers Ray xx

[steviep165]

u can tell bty the way ray is being a slavvery old ****** that mrs sparx isnt on 2day.

u'l not have a problem china pet. you sound cracking. and if u do struggle, you'r just the right age for me!!

[steviep165]

cant believe ABed asterixed the word bu@@er. typical yank.

[PinkFizz]

Hi Ray - yes I meant dribbling from the mouth - you randy goat!!

[China Doll]

Lol thanks Stevie... you're not bad yourself hun ;0)

I'm not too worried about it to be honest but it would be nice to have a fool proof way of telling. There is someone I like but I find him very confusing and I don't think it helps that he's shy and I'm not very good at that whole' girl likes boy so should flirt and not treat him as mate' thing.

[China Doll]

Sounds like Mrs Sparx might be in for a good evening too when she gets home from Ray's mood!

[ugly_bob]

my number is 0779585644
*looks away*
give me a bell
*dribbles*

[jon1968]

A look and a smile with good eye contact �that�s it! If it�s reciprocated then ��.wahay!!

It aint rocket science hun, if you don�t ask you don�t get!!

[China Doll]

Lol @ uglybob... you're starting to sound like my punters!

I know it's not rocket science.... just very shy about the whole asking thing!!!

And the rejection thing wouldn't be a picnic either ;0)