Attention.......

[sandrajo]

If someone had given you loads of attention over a few months then suddenly just stopped and you have no idea why , how would you cope with it?

[4getmenot]

I'd just get on with my life. A bit of attention is always a nice added bonus in life, but you dont need it.

[unruliejulie]

That would do my head in and I'd forever be wondering if i had done something to upset them. Its a bit of a head doer, slightly confusing, would also make me more wary in the future.

[spk]

Im with 4getmenot I would just take it in my stride. People are strange sometimes if you havent done anything to upset them then they maybe just grew bored. Dont let it get to you and dont chase them for attention

[Starbar]

I would GROW UP !!!

[sandrajo]

lol starbar 'Grow up'. I am very grown up.

[4getmenot]

Are you saying you need to grow up starbar :-)

[carrust]

Did he buy some new glasses?

[unruliejulie]

i find it annoying when people blow hot and cold on you, doesn't mean I'm not grown up! Its just a bit unfair to do that to someone at least without some sort of explanation as to why.

[cliffsweb]

talk to the person, ask if you've done something to offend them and go from there, there are so many misundertandings in this world simply because people dont talk. its no good walking around with your miserable feelings getting bitter about it, have a good talk clear the airand find ot where you stand. then if the person doesnt want to know you move on and find real friends.

[4getmenot]

Coz I totally agree with you starbar you do need to grow up and carrust stop being so nasty. This person wants some help, be nice :-)

[redcrx]

You havnt actually said who this person is that was giving you attention. Boyfriend, friend, workmate, online friend etc etc.

[sandrajo]

That is the thing julie, when you don't know why, it completely messes with your head. Thanks everyone for your advice.

[funkymoped]

ide just let them go.....
cant hang on to someone if they dont want you...

[joko]

people stop being nice to grown ups all the time star bar - and those grown ups get confused - what makes you think it is the reserve of children...?

rather an immature outlook on life, don't you think?