I had a terrible eve last night....

[PinkFizz]

I had a really really awful eve and now im very stressed,upset and don't know what to do with myself.

[Oh Bother]

Sorry to hear you so distressed PF, I agree, you have to report this and get it logged.

I would also add that I think your ex has just ******* on his chips regarding your son!

Chin up chick. XXX

[China Doll]

Please call police/domestic unit Pink. I'm with Posey, don't want you sitting around on you're own.

Your boyfriend obviously isn't worried about how it reflects on him.. and frankly it doesn't reflect badly on anyone, just your stupid ex.

[PinkFizz]

Thanks you guys.I am going to call them now and let you know what they said in a little while.xxx

[Pippa68]

Oh Pink love..I do feel for you :o(

Great advice given ~ in no way will this affect your b/fs job, so get it logged. I am a great advocate for contact with both parents, but in this case it simply isn't on. Your son can do without a violent parent.

Take care & let us know any further developments xx

[kate1976]

Can't really add any other advice than the others have given but I just wanted to add my support! I went through hell with my ex so I know where you're coming from, don't let him intimidate you!

Stay strong and take care!
xxx

[Hellion]

Oh Pinkie how horrible for you - I'd come round too if I lived closer. Ring police station and get the incident logged - you can do this without pressing charges - I'd ring your little boys school as well just to make them aware that there is a potential problem. It will keep them alert. Have you got a friend who can come round? When the parcel arrives I would go out - if nothing else you'll think more rationally if you're somewhere neutral.

Failing that why not all move to the south coast we'd love to have you!


Big hug to you xx

[~posy-jo~]

have you phoned them yet pink?? what did they say? xXx

[froggo]

what a loser!!!
this guy gave up any rights haveing any sort of input in your life and you lil fellas when you split .
i dont know your history but if you truly love someone then you stay with no matter wot
rules apply you move you lose and he definately is a loser
phone the ol bill pink !

[PinkFizz]

Hi guys.I would have you all round now if I could!
I have just spoken to a lovely policewoman and she wants to come round and take a statement then arrest him for threatening behaviour.She says they can also download my texts and use them as evidence.

xx

[Wee Kaz]

Lots of hugs and kisses from everyone PinkFizz and the answers are all the same, call the police and tell them what's happened, you and your child are what's most important and I am sure your bf will see it that way and obvioulsy doesn't care about his job as he's told you to contact the police as well.

Your ex sounds very irrational and as much as I am not trying to trivialise what he is saying, people who say what they are going to do to you etc etc normally don't otherwise they would just go out and doing without any warning. He's obviously trying to intimidate and frighten you and your bf and it's understandably working. Despite this I would still speak to the police, that way you will feel safer.

Try and get someone to come round or get yourself out and about to help keep your mind off it.

Hope it all works out and your take everyone's advice, after all, it's not safe for your son or bf either so act on it straight away.

Take care pumpkin x

[steviep165]

excellent stuff pink. hope the weight has come off you'r shoulders a bit.
if there's any justice in the world, the man shouldnt be allowed to see his son again, and a restraining order should be put up so he cant get anywhere near either of you.
hope you're ok.xx.

[froggo]

nice 1 pink 1-0 to the good guys ;~)

[Wee Kaz]

Well done doll, sorry my answer must've overlapped yours! You did the right thing x

[China Doll]

As usual, in complete agreement with Stevie...

I hope you're feeling a bit better now honey and a lot less stressed... what an a$$hole.

I know it's early but I think I'd have a nice gin and tonic if I were you.

Much love and support out to you babes xx

[sense4all]

You did the right thing hon. I have made us all a cuppa , did the shopping yesterday so we can have a biccy too. Keep us posted as we will thinking of you. Much love ,Sense.

[~posy-jo~]

glad that you are getting it sorted hun. i would love to come up there and be with you but they would be arresting me for threatening behaviour to your ex!! take care hun xXx

[PinkFizz]

now you lots have made me all teary - you're so lovely!!

I know he may not do any of it but that's not the point is it - he made my life sheel hell for 5 years and it'll serve him right if he gets arrested!

Sense4all,a cuppa sounds wonderful!!

[China Doll]

Strong no sugar please if you're offering sense4 ;0)

No more tears Pink, just a big smiley face!

[froggo]

we lov u pinky , we do,
we lov u pinky , we do,
we lov u pinky , we do,
oooohhhhhh pinky we lov you
;~D

[imaneedhelp]

mnko sends over some flowers for pink as a pick me up. and a card signed from everyone a AB