I had a terrible eve last night....

[PinkFizz]

I had a really really awful eve and now im very stressed,upset and don't know what to do with myself.

[Supernick]

What's happened Fizz? Tell good old uncle answerbank and we'll lend a hand. x

[~posy-jo~]

aw pink sorry u didn't have a good night. is it anything we can help with?? if not i am sending you hugs!! take a deep breath and try and chill xXx

[PinkFizz]

I had to meet my little boy's dad to talk about letting him see his son again(he went out a month ago ad left him playing in his front garden whilst he went to shops and he is only 6).So I said he couldn't see him till we talked about things face to face.I asked him to agree to a rough solicitor letter saying he wasn't to leave him on his own,and to not keep letting him walk around his estate alone to knock for friend with no adult with him.He said no,then halfheartedly agreed.That was till I got home.

[PinkFizz]

Then he changed his mind and sent me text after text saying he was going to kill my b/f,he knew were he worked and was gona do something today,I was gona wish I had never crossed him.Oh loads of them,one after the other,and now Im at home on my own and a nervous wreck.

[raysparx]

Hi pink, he is out of order,why can't he just grow up a bit ? is he awkward just to have a pop at you ? or is he just stupid ? you will get through this,you are the sensible one here,that is quite clear to see,take care, Ray xx

[PinkFizz]

He's not all talk - I really think he is going to do something.

[caz21]

HI Pink!

Could he maybe have been drinking last night and saying all that because of it? just a thought, but if so, maybe in the sober light of day he will realise just what he has done and regret it! and if this was the case its extremely unlikely he would do anything!

also have you kept the texts? i'm sure a solicitor would be very interested to see them!
What has your boyfriend said?

Dont stress too much hun, have a nice cup of tea and try relax! xx

[~posy-jo~]

can you go out to someone elses house and forget work for today pink?? or can you get someone to come round and be with you at yours? if i lived closer i would come round hun, i may be little but i pack a mean punch!! xXx

[unruliejulie]

Pink, so sorry for you, i went through hell with my ex. If you do feel in any way seriously threatened then a call to the police, who may fet in touch with him, could put you at ease a little.Is there anyone else you can call to come and see you so you don't feel quite so alone?

[PinkFizz]

awww thanks posy.
Yes he probably was drunk but he is a very irrational man and will definitely do something.We split up because of his violence - he put me in hispital more than once and one time he went to hit me but missed and hit my son.

[PinkFizz]

*hospital - excuse spelling.

[China Doll]

Pink, if you think he's going to do something call the police and get your butt to a friends house where there's more than one person! Sorry that sounds mean but I just want you to be safe.

What does your boyfriend say? Is he worried to? Does he have a lot of people around him at work?

Awww babes, I'm so sorry you're going through all this cr*p, am sending you a big hug xx

[PinkFizz]

my b/f actually works at a certain police H/Q (he is contracting there at the mo on an IT upgrade.)He wants me to call the police and get them to dig out my old file as they had loads of call outs to my house for incidents,but Im worried that it will reflect badly on my partner and his job.

[~posy-jo~]

aw hunnie!! probably best if you get out of the house. forget work and go somewhere else where you are not alone!! make sure you keep the texts he has sent. i hope you are ok. xXx

[PinkFizz]

Yes I have kept all the texts.I can't go out as I am waiting for an important parcel to be delivered,but I think I might ring the police station as a caution.

[kick3m0n]

Hi PF, so sorry to hear this, what an awful situation for you. I think you have to contact the police, esp given your ex's history of violence. You have the texts, show them to the police and they should definitely search out your file, as this man is clearly a danger to you and your bf, and even his own son, who may get caught in the crossfire once again. sending you massive big hugs sweetie. xxx

[~posy-jo~]

is there no-one that can come round and be with you? i hate the thought of you being there on your own xXx

[redcrx]

report it Pink.
If he is likely to follow through with his threat then you have to report it.

[PinkFizz]

B/F has just this sec text me from work - he has spoken to a guy there and given me the number of the domestic violence unit who would have dealt with things before.Says im to call them and explain what happened lastnight.

[unruliejulie]

PinkFizz, you have been given some good advice here. Please don't just sit there worrying, go and do what we have told you, for your own safety. Your b/fs job isn't really important when it comes to all of your safety. If this guy has a record of incidents of violence against you, they have to do something to help you. Take care im sending a big hug and loads of love xxxx