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have any of you ever had an affair?
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? (i know i'm a nosey cow!!)
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Well it depends on what you consider cheating. Behind my last gfs back I "cheated" twice but I only consider it as once (I'm a girl btw).
The first time I was on holiday (holiday had been booked before I started seeing her) and I slept with someone whilst I was drunk - never saw the person again and would never want to. I don't consider this cheating (although many, would and do, and I understand why).
The second time, I met my (now) current gf and we flirted and met up in secret for a few months (nothing physical ever happened despite her persistance lol), I then ended it with my now ex (current gf at the time) and then started a physical relationship with my now gf who I've been with for nearly 8 years. I consider this cheating.
I consider an emotional attraction or bond as a worse "cheating" than a drunken one night stand, because the emotions involved are a lot deeper and (usually) premeditated and are more devious, deceitful and calculating than a drunken one night. And if you start something physical with someone who you are emotionally bonded with then that's the worst type of cheating.
I (hope I) would never cheat on my current gf but as has been said, you never know what's round the corner - I certainly don't feel like I would ever cheat on her. At this moment in time, she is everythig I want from a gf so my "cheating" on my ex paid off in this instance but I certainly don't condone it and am ashamed to a certain degree how we got together (I always cringe when ppl ask).
The first time I was on holiday (holiday had been booked before I started seeing her) and I slept with someone whilst I was drunk - never saw the person again and would never want to. I don't consider this cheating (although many, would and do, and I understand why).
The second time, I met my (now) current gf and we flirted and met up in secret for a few months (nothing physical ever happened despite her persistance lol), I then ended it with my now ex (current gf at the time) and then started a physical relationship with my now gf who I've been with for nearly 8 years. I consider this cheating.
I consider an emotional attraction or bond as a worse "cheating" than a drunken one night stand, because the emotions involved are a lot deeper and (usually) premeditated and are more devious, deceitful and calculating than a drunken one night. And if you start something physical with someone who you are emotionally bonded with then that's the worst type of cheating.
I (hope I) would never cheat on my current gf but as has been said, you never know what's round the corner - I certainly don't feel like I would ever cheat on her. At this moment in time, she is everythig I want from a gf so my "cheating" on my ex paid off in this instance but I certainly don't condone it and am ashamed to a certain degree how we got together (I always cringe when ppl ask).
I was serially unfaithful to my first wife with lots of women, my second wife thinks men are not naturally mongamous and gave me a carte blanche to see anyone I liked as long as it did not develope into a relationship. For some reason casual sex doesn't appeal to me any more , so I'm not sure she's not just really good a reverse psychology.
I've been the other woman, but not intentionally, he lied to me at the beginning of our relationship. But there was just something about him, maybe it was pheromones, or we met each other in a past life. And crazy as this sounds, i was drawn to him. was very unhealthy and guilt ridden as I was I ended it.
Well I didn't do the cheating - he did.
He was the adulterer, we had an affair for about 3� years, finished, then rekindled for a while before I realised it was going nowhere. (Not that I didn't already know he was never going to leave his wife and family). The bond between us was very strong, a powerful chemistry that I had never felt before, or ever had since...
He was the adulterer, we had an affair for about 3� years, finished, then rekindled for a while before I realised it was going nowhere. (Not that I didn't already know he was never going to leave his wife and family). The bond between us was very strong, a powerful chemistry that I had never felt before, or ever had since...
I am currently seeing a married man, its great, i dont have the hassle of having to see him all the time, and its him that does all the running to be with me, its lovely, we met in a hotel 4 months ago and i am in love with him. Hes is everything i look for in a guy and i live for today, i may get hurt who knows, but life is a risk afterall and i dont regret this at all.
