Bullying

[dot.hawkes]

How do people handle this? It isn't just children that can be bullied, I have felt bullied today on the thread in the suggestions category, having been bullied when i was 10 I experienced the fear and trauma first hand. How have you managed to grow inside to shrug off the attempts to belittle you and make you look stupid? I had a 17 year marriage in which i was constantly bullied but for 11 years i have struggled to find myself and I am proud that I have enough self esteem to say i will never back down to bullies again, whether they be real or pixelated.

[dot.hawkes]

bednobs i don't know who you are but I do not bully i react to it.

[crete]

dot. we have not always seen eye to eye on this site but i do sympathise with you today juast ignore anyone who you believe is being nasty to you that is what i now do you have been at this game too long to let something like this annoy you.

[dot.hawkes]

cheers for that crete, i usually ignore it but today i chose not to, i somtimes bite back. lol

[crete]

you know the solution dot a wee glass of wine.

[-Zorro-]

Crete, I admit to suggesting on here that we should bully you coz you appear unpleasant at times.

[dot.hawkes]

Zorro we don't take you seriously, even in the guise of the dark avenger

[bednobs]

lol well maybe the person who "bullied" you feels the same way? it dosent matter to you, the end result is that you feel bullied, just like i did!

[whiffey]

coz. lol. Education, who needs it ? lol

[pie+mash]

So she then went along and had the thread banned/zapped because too many people on this thread said they didn't think she was bullied, and was the aggressor.

[dot.hawkes]

actually pie and mash you jump to the wrong conclusion yet again, i went to the train station to get my ticket for London next tuesday and when i came back the thread had gone, i can prove that too as the tickets are all timed and dated and it takes 20 minutes drive there and 15 minutes drive back, so get off your soapbox and stop stirring it all up.

[dot.hawkes]

you just sound out and out plain nasty have you read your posts back to yourself, considering you have only been on here for a few weeks you are starting to create alot of ill feeling against yourself. Way to go.

[bednobs]

lol you both seem to be good at juming to conclusions.
On the original post dot accused pieand mash of getting her threads maliciously pulled, now on this thread pieandmash accuses dot of getting the post pulled. Who cares? Just ignore each other.

[joby1]

Dot, I'm sure I read that pie&mash has changed names, (on the other thread), If I am mistaken I apologise.

I read the other thread upto post 56 I think, and still do not have any idea how you assumed it was about you.

Whiffey, you are an ass, no two way's about it.

[whiffey]

Yadayada joby1,

Incidentally, if you ever did meet me, would you aim for my pretty head, my shapely legs, or my tyres ? xx really.

[joby1]

whiffey, I am not ever going to meet you, am I?

I doubt you have a pretty head or shapely thighs, no doubt you have tyres though.

Sorry Dot.

[dot.hawkes]

well like I said joby, odd, who comes on here to sit and turn grey and then starts kickin off at people. If it wasn't me,( that has not been denied by pie and mash,) why did pie and mash then carry on stating all these rude and assumptive comments about me, my job my daughter my supposed person i live with, which i don't, and in so much detail, or do they have a whole store of issues and data in a little file somewhere,about lots of abers but i was the one in the line of fire?

[pie+mash]

The evidence has gone though dot. You yourself on one post declared that you had emailed ED regarding your allegation that I was targeting you! You stated that you wanted to have me banned. It is not that long ago, have you forgotten already?

You have had it removed (whatever method or time) and nobody can now counter what you said.

[Cobra.]

whiffey, have you banned mrs mnko Q

[dot.hawkes]

believe what you like Pie and mash. You better add a few more details to your little set of personal files about me, i am going to london next week, wanna know when i get back? How much the ticket was? Where i am staying? Go stalk someone else whilst i am gone and i will test you on them when I get back.

[pie+mash]

Joby, dot accused me of having given her grief before.
I reiterate that I joined 5/8/06, check it out with the Ed or techies, I have nothing to hide. I have not been on this site prior to that date.

bednobs pse do not accuse me of jumping to wrong conclusions, dot said she had reported bullying, on the thread that was pulled, so the Ed has taken it off.