Im so bored

[lostboy87]

Havnt been out for months cos im skint.i even feel like i dont have the social skills anymore even if i did!
Theres the usual friday night tv that i like to watch but cant even be bothered to do that.I feel like getting drunk but have no booze and for some strange reason i feel like im gonna burst into tears,and thats not like me.
my gf is upstairs wraping xmas pressies and cant even muster the energy to talk to her................what the hell is wrong with me?cos ill be damned if i know!

[counsellor]

ah bless you..... that's how women feel once a month every month! x

[JackDanielsU]

Count yourself lucky youve got a girlfriend....Im in the same boat and am blooming single....

I guess its just a case of the seasonal blues or something. Go take gf a cup of tea etc, and sit down and watch a DVD, tv together...and things will start to look better

[Eve]

Awww honey, go upstairs, sit next to your girlfriend, wrap your arms around her and just say you want to hold her for a while.

Just lie there for a while then try and talk to her, tell her how you feel and see if she can help.

xxx

[lostboy87]

Cheers jack but thats what we do every night......i could do with drinking some jack daniels right now.

[justasking]

aaw i wish i could make u feel better but unfortunately i don't know the right words to say :(. But i hope u feel better, i too havent got the money to go out tonight and even if i did go out i probably wouldnt start having a good time until i'm drunk out of my head so i'm trying to find a posative in that. But maybe u should go for a walk and have a little cry, sometimes it helps or maybe just go and hug your girlfriend. But sometimes i feel like its the end of the world and the next day im happy/happier at least so hopefully u will feel better tomorrow.

[lostboy87]

Jenna,she is now on the phone to her friend and that should last another hour or so.

[lostboy87]

The thing is,i know this sounds harsh but i dont want to talk to her and its not that there is any problems between us,i just dont want to for some reason!

[Eve]

Awwww, why not write on a piece of paper something like "i love you" and fold it, creep in quietly, and kiss her gently on the neck or forehead and leave it in her lap.

Maybe she'll come down then or even write on the paper, "feeling a bit down, can we talk when you're free" then "i love you" or something so she doesn't panic or think it's her.

[Eve]

Sorry didn't see your post first :(

[lostboy87]

It s ok jenna,i love her loads dont get me wrong its just tonight i dont want to be around anyone.

[KittyGlitter]

You're probably fed up because you're skint and haven't had a change of scene for a while. Do you have any mates you could visit? These dark nights don't help either - people seem to generally stay indoors more and exercise less which doesn't help. Tomorrow, even if you don't feel like it, try going somewhere completely new on your own and have a long walk or watch a movie - anything that will give you a change of scenery xx