"more like a brother" Syndrome

[Homer55]

Why is it that whenever I get a girl interested and feel like she starts liking me back that she says I see you more like a brother??

AAARRGGHH What am i doing wrong

[4getmenot]

You�re leaving it too late to make a move, yer it is always nice to become mates with a girl first, gain there trust etc, but there is always a cut off point at which you must the make your move, if you do it when you have become too pally then it becomes awkward as you say �like kissing your brother�.

[MrBen5]

Hmmm, I remember you Hygenic homer...
i agree with 4getmenot. Your being too pally with her first. you need to sleep with her before she gets to stage of a freindly relationship. As women are a lot more emotional than men, in the time you spent together, she will get used to you as a friend cos you never made a move on her. By the time you do make a move on her, its too late as she has bonded with you in a different way. You need to stop being so nice and get straight to the point when your with a girl. Once you have slept with her, she should like it and get all sorts of feelings of a different kind. Unfortunately Homer55, you will not be able to be anything more than friends with the ones you have alrerady tried...

[warpig1]

pmsl at MrBen, am speechless!

[redcrx]

lol mrBen, I dont think that Homer needs to sleep with them lol, just perhaps make a move before it gets to 'just friends' stage.

[dot.hawkes]

I think it'sthe beer

[robbo82]

Move to the Deep South in America, I hear they're into that kind of thing down there!

[Lonnie]

Best thing to do, as you seem to have no problem in asking the young ladies out, is, first hold her hand, if she doesn't take it away, at the end of the first evening, kiss her, simple as that, but its your judgement, some girls you have to ask, (first date only), others just do it, that way, there's no mistaking which way your going. But as I said, you have to judge whether its an ask or not..
Good luck.