Man trouble!!!!!

[Cola bear]

I've just recently discovered that a guy I've known for nearly 4years has fancied me and I quote "the first night we met" Now I find myself thinking bout him ALL the time. The only problem is he's a friend of my ex. Would it be uncomfortable or should I just go for it.

[gaz's girl]

go for it!! so what if he's the ex's friend! everyone knows someone! lol! if you like him and he likes you then he clearly isn't worried about being friends with your ex! don't feel uncomfortable just go with the flow and see what happens X

[wizard69]

Life's too short, your ex is in the past, go for it...

[curlyperm]

go for it! ; )

[Cola bear]

Thanks guys the thing is we're in the same circle of friends

[curlyperm]

would it bother you if he went out with a mate of yours? sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind and move on, might be nice to pre-warn him if you are all going out in a group though, prepare him for the shock sort of thing? dont want him bursting in to tears do ya? lol
send him a quick text and then just get on with it x I (along with others await the outcome, you see i have no life lol)

[redcrx]

I went out with a gut who had known my husband longer than he'd known me. It worked for about 6 months and my ex was OK with it. It was a bit strange to go out in a group of friends when they were both there. And when we started going out we didnt tell any of the others, just my ex, when my guy was chatting to exes best friend about bringing 'redcrx' to party, the other friend said 'what A's redcrx?' and he said 'no my redcrx' which caused a few shocked faces lol
its even stranger when i go out with the gang now and have my partner in tow. They joke about me having been out with the whole table, not quite true lol

[Surreylass]

Do you like him because he likes you. This sometimes happens. You hear someone likes you and then you consider it and reconsider it in your head. If you have never considered him before hearing this 'news' then i would just forget about it. If you cant, then perhaps get him to talk to him mate to clear it with him.

[Cola bear]

I know that it sounds like I fancy him since he's made his feelings known but it's not like that at all. I think that I've always really liked him, of all my ex's friends I got on best with him. We used to hang out a lot and even meet up for a few beers faily regularly. I think I'll just go for it. Thanks guys.