Being in control

[Trinny]

For all of you who have read my previous (mainly unhappy) posts about my long time partner, finally dumping me via email. He has now decided to contact me again! No big surprise to me. But I am actually replying to his texts as it makes me feel in control. I will never get back with him. But it now feels totally like closure to me, even though he has started contact. All be it, "friendly" as he puts it. Can anyone understand this closure bit, or am I just being stupid in replying?

[bigmamma]

Trinny love , you do what you feel is the best for you , and if this is closure for you then you will need to be in control and not get sucked in by him wanting to stay friends if you feel you have any feelings for him beyond that .
Be happy with what contact you want and if and when you ,not him , decide to end it this time. :-) xxx

[Trinny]

Thanks Leon

bigmamma, I told him I don't want to be friends. Its hard to explain, but I now feel in control, as he was the one who contacted me. I will never get back with him, but feel in control of things. Sorry for over using the word control :) xx.

[bigmamma]

It was certainly callous and cowardly of him to dump you by e-mail love , no wonder you said no to the friends idea , well done.:-) xx

[pete-duel]

Trinny my advice would be to not to listen to such trivia sheepshagger

[nitestalker]

bell_end i hear u lost control
then u tried to take control
diddent work thou did it

loooooosssseeeerrrr

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[nitestalker]

loooossssseeeerrr

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[nitestalker]

oh joy
oh joy

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[nitestalker]

arf
dont be dissin ma bo man
loooosssseeeerrrr

or shud i say paedo (sp) arf

[nitestalker]

my fun is over wid u now bell_end
u can go
go on toddle off now
i dismiss u
GO

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but i may reapper to give all you answerbankers more info on this predator

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[nitestalker]

did i not dismiss u?

Go
I told u to Go dident I
Go NOW

I said NOW
listen fooooooooollllllll


deaf mofo

GO
GO
GO

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[nitestalker]

oh joy
oh joy

goodbye and good riddance bell_end
i think these answerbankers no now

isnt exposure great
n i dont mean on a camera

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a fond farewell to you all
i know you love meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

bell_end
leave by the back door
loooosssseeeerrrr

adios amigo
or as dey say in that place called blackpool

kiss me quick
bet you are on the waterfront wearing your hat all de time
bell_end

adios

DISMISSED

well u ave been
GO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[nitestalker]

hahahaha
bell_end

GO NOW

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oh and as for the crumbs
bet yer ex is feastin now

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GOODBYE
U CAN GO