Lonely and suicidal

[GavinH]

Ever felt so lonely that suicide feels the only way out?. Yes its a selfish act. But when you see no way forward. Being dead seems a relief to all your problems.

[skyep]

Gavin, what's happening?

[black bunny]

Gavin, please talk...concerned about you.

[skyep]

Gavin, we're still here, talk to us.

[GavinH]

I cant see anything in the future to make me feel like its worth me being here. This is not self pity. I really cannot see a light at the end of the tunnel

[Lonnie]

Hi Gavin,
I've just gone through a really bad patch, and can empthise totally, no light at the end of the tunnel, but as skyep and black bunny have said, you do need to talk,

Never forget, we'er all here for you.

[skyep]

So whats happening in your life that gives you that bleak outlook?

[Cheekystar]

talk to your friends / family / GP - sounds like you need support and I'll bet there are people who would gladly help - there is a light at the end of the tunnel, you may just need support to see it - 08457 90 90 90 this is the number for the samaritans who are there to help - please call them to talk through your problems
Good luck

[dot.hawkes]

we went thru this last year wh mnko nd my attitude hs not changed, this is a site to take advice in good heart, lift your spirits or the people on hre genuinely lose sleep over your plight, keep us up to speed or we send the tickle police around to make sure you are paying attention

[Trinny]

hi Gavin, I have been through some really bad times, and hate to admit it, but have often felt like you seem to be feeling. Ending it all. But I did come through that tunnel eventually.

You may not see it now, but things will improve. You wont see it now, as I didn't at the time, as all you see is bleakness. Honestly, I know how you feel. I got through it xx

[pollyspeed]

gavin,as you can see by the responses youve had so far there are people who are concerned about you.I dont know you gavin or what your circumstances are but please believe me when i say that no matter what is going on in your life,how bad you may think it is or how bad something that you may have done is.....nothing is worth taking your life for and every problem can have a solution if you just seek it.
please tell us,if you feel you can,what the problem is and im sure that someone on here will be able to at least give you support or point you in the right direction for a solution.

[skyep]

Doc - no no no. Not on this post! Gavin, I've been there a long time ago, it feels like nothing and no - one can sort things out, but please talk to us.

[GavinH]

Thank you everyone. For those of you who have been here, will know what I am going through. I wish I could snap out of it. But if you have been through it . The you know its not that easy.

thank you all anyway

[pollyspeed]

does anyone know gavin or anything about him? anyone spoke with him before?

[skyep]

Gavin - Are you being treated at the moment for depression?

[TORCHWOOD]

Yes...

[Doc Spock]

This is silly, gavin is obviously seeking attention.

This is not the correct forum in any eventuallity.

[pollyspeed]

very relieved to see your message gavin!!! you see,no need to feel lonely there are people who genuinely give a damn!!
you wouldnt be expected to "snap out of it"....if only things were that simple!! it has probably taken time to get to where youre at now and so the flip side is it will take time to get back again.
the first step is to talk about it ,a problem shared is a problem halved and all that and the second is to seek proffessional help....no one is going to knock you for it

[bigmamma]

Gavin , while you can talk to us we are here to listen . You do sound as though you need someone with you , are you on your own at the moment ? Do you have family or a friend you can ring , if not then do ring The Samaritans or your GP office , or another doctor .
Please don't turn away from some help . Hope you are reading the helpful posts above , talk to us to let us know :-)

[GavinH]

pollyspeed, I doubt if anyone knows me.

I thank you all from the bottom of my heart. For the cynics here who thinks I am out for attention. They are wrong