1. To present or regard as an object: "Because we have objectified animals, we are able to treat them impersonally" Barry Lopez.
2. To make objective, external, or concrete: thoughts objectified in art.
^^^ Definitions. I suspect that's what people are actually accusing you of when they say you hate women. They just got their terminology a bit skew wiff.
You quite obviously don't hate women as far as I can tell.
And try not to associate me and the word 'sweet' if possible. It doesn't suit me!