"Why, I oughta"

[pleaseplease]

I would like to pass quietly away. I've a large and loving family - from whom I have heard nothing for over two months, I have a reasonable job and a comfortable (rented) home, and am , by my nature , close to only a very small number of personal freinds. I would like to pass on. Cold, intangible comfort of non-existence.
The other side of this . The safe side.

[Beads]

And your question is?

[pussnboots]

Ring the Samaritans quick!!!!!

[Ice-Maiden]

I hope you aren't serious pleaseplease. If you are, then please ring the Samaritans and see if you can find an answer for your depression.

[Beads]

Ohmy, I didn't realise you were saying you wanted to pass on - I thought you were generally telling us about your situation - I am very very sorry - I never would have put the first post - didn't understand.

If you genuinely feel this way, please call one of your personal friends immediately to be with you. Also you should call the samitans until your friend gets to you (www.samaritans.org) - however low you feel now, it's not as bad as you think.x

[wizard69]

PP...What exactly is the problem. Are you depressed?
God knows I've been there and come through it. Loving family and everything but just felt helpless and wanted out.
I have to go for a while, hope others on here can help.

[hussy]

ice maiden is right babe please phone the Samaritans you shouldn't be on your own when your feeling so low. you only get one life and have to make the best of the cards your dealt with, talk to someone, theres some people out there that still care. always remember there are a lot of people that are a lot worse of than yourself, being disabled for instance or having a bad disfigurement, so get on that phone and try and sort yourself out, you are not alone.

[Beads]

Please keep people posted on here too - there are people on here until very late who will be able to post.

[Beads]

please please - why have you not had contact with your family for over two months, has this contributed to the way you're feeling? I am sure they'd be devasted if they thought you felt this way.
Beads

[pussnboots]

I don't really understand depression as I have never suffered from it, but why are you feeling this way. Is there a reason why you haven't heard from your family, can you not get in touch with them ?

[jackthehat]

Please concentrate on "Why, I shouldn't"............

[Ice-Maiden]

I agree that talking to people on AB might help you if you if you genuinely feel down. I'm sure people'll try to cheer you up, or just listen if you want to chat. Get back to us and let us know what's what.

[VillageVicar]

Please: May I ask please about your family. Has there been an event that caused this absence of communication. Or is it as many people experience, when your children have grown and are busy with their lives, they forget to remain in contact? Either way, these can be complex issues.

If you are feeling depressed, then yes, this may be a good venue � provided you are comfortable in sharing. However, your local Samaritans are also valuable: 08457 90 90 90.

The word �family� manifests itself in many ways. I gather you�ve noticed from the supportive and nurturing comments in this thread that there is a family that cares.

You are in my thoughts

Fr Bill

[dot.hawkes]

I hope you are right, and it is the safe side, because my aunrie is on her way there and God willing her suffering will be over soon, I hope you are right and it is the safe side because Danny has had to go there against his will aged just 26, i hope you are right and it is the safe side because we really don't have much else do we? except here, the side where we get to make the best of it.

[Doc Spock]

Greenie,pleaseplease. come on.
Bl00dy ellDot wot u been drinkin ?

[funnygirl]

pleaseplease, don't harbour such thoughts. We all have our down days. Please be strong. Going to the other side is not the answer, don't even think about it.
Think about re-building bridges with our family and friends.
I know "families" take advantage and only visit when they want something. We have all been in that position.

Stay Strong!

[wizard69]

It is polite, at least ,to thank people for their replies. Especially when they show concern for you....

[wizard69]

If you are so selfish as to not even aknowledge replies from people that are worried about you then all the best in your suicide attempt....

[Pippa68]

Maybe they have already ended it all, wizard...;o)

[weeal]

wizard thats a bit harsh !

[wizard69]

Not harsh at all. Some people are so selfish that they cant even thank people that are trying to help them so f*ck them. If they want to exit the world then the world will be a better place without them. A thank you costs nothing, even if you desire to end your life..
selfish b*stard