NOT a sympathy thread !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Drisgirl]

As some will be aware my children lost their children tragically (in a an accident) just 6 months ago. Its been tough - very tough as we have an impending trial. Today- his dad -my childrens grandad was found dead -I visited him as I was concerned as he seemed to have given up when Dave was killed and urged him to please start eating and think of the rest of his family (his wife died at 47) -he assured me he would try -remember I am now on the perimeter of the family. He came to see my mum and dad 2 weeks ago and spoke at length about me and Dave (my first husband and father of my children and sorely missed) and at that point I thought -he has given up -looks like he did. It wasnt suicide -he simply died of a broken heart -how sad is that and selfishly another burden for my 2 to bear-I am weeping as I type this. I just wish that the perpetrator of this event would have just pled guilty and taken the smack on the wrist and at most a years ban -but no -she had to take it to trial. Am I such a bad person for hating this woman with a vengenace -I would have held ny hands up and said 'Guilty as charged' but no she decided to not only try to keep her licence for a lesser limit but the biatch has now effectively cut 2 lives short -but given us all a life sentence.The trial starts at the end of April. (She doesnt have a leg to stand on -well Dave would have had no legs to stand on had he lived -or a head so its all incidental-grr) Would you blame me for being bitter and also what next ??????????????? .Can someone tell me -I have no emotion left for my children-its been all used up-how can I tell them its gonna be OK?

[hussy]

dris where is my mention me mucker?????

[Ice.Maiden]

You're included in that as well Hussy. Dris knows who's who, and what's what.

[Drisgirl]

How could i miss Hussy ma mucker out -sorry hun -mega mwah xxxxxx

O BTW -for everyone faced with a dilemna such as mine -please dont be afraid to post as YET again I find myself in the position of not being able to speak to close family hence my mega thread here (OK I know I will leave myself open to half wits but its a chance I take but you you have all helped enourmesly (sp?) spesh Stevie -he ALWAYS knows when I am brow beaten and ALWAYS comes up trumps -you are all true stars and i thank you allxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

[hussy]

i know icey although i didn't give any good advice i will always stick up for her as i am loyal to my mates.

[Ice.Maiden]

Well I won't ask how you're feeling Dris - I'm sure it goes without saying. I'll email you as soon as I can. Be strong hun. Once all this's over, you can only go up. It'll turn out OK for you in the end - xx

[Drisgirl]

I swear down Hussy I was typing that and I had no idea you were posting that -spooky or what -almost word for word xxxxxxxxxx

[pastafreak]

I think this is just as close a family as any 'real' family could be...in fact,sometimes closer as we are not judgemental

[seekeerz]

Hi drisgirl I can't believe I can look at my life and grumble about the little things when you are going through all this - yes, I'd be bitter, I'd be more than bitter, I'd be out there with something lethal [!] looking for the waste-of-space !!

Hang in there, girl - we're with you all the way [ well the real ones are, anyway] hang on to that inner strength and you'll get through. Life will never be the same, it can't, but time and love can bring some peace of mind.

[Drisgirl]

Aww Ice Ice Baby -yip I have imbibed but I am away to eat as I finish typing -lol

I feel likje cra@p but hey I have been in the depths didnt expect it so soon -I am very sad tonight- TBH I dont know what to do as a parent -I just didnt expect this so soon.

I have to say I am so sad for the loss as i knew Daves dad as long as I knew him and even when i renovated my wee cottage 10yrs ago he was the mainstay -at least Dave has his Mum and Dad there with him -whatever you all think thats what keeping me going at least !!!

[hussy]

nice une girl xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
it would be a bit hard to forget your hussy anyway..... as im not that sort of person to hide in the corner lol


thank you babe and yes your 100 per cent our stevie is the b0ll0x to people that he cares about and has time for...... the rest he is a hard act to follow and nobody can outwit him.
deep down he has a heart of gold but only the people that take time out to get to know him realize this......

[Drisgirl]

Pasta babe mwah xxx and Seek mwah xxx -thank you sooo much -it helps enormously -I never thought I would be posting again for a millisecond -but hey ho such is life -it does suck !!!!! Thakks for all my pals xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

[Drisgirl]

Aww this sucks -I missed out bez annie and chrissy -thank you all so much -i didnt expect such a massive response and man i really appreciate your support -it helps in a bigger way than you can ALL imagine -no BS from me straight from the heart for all the postive posts -means more than you will ever know !!!!!!!!! xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

[pastafreak]

When you get a response like this dris....it is like being surrounded by love, or a huge warm hug....a wonderful feeling You're never realy alone here xx

[Drisgirl]

pasta -luv ya honey -you have been there ALL the time for me ma darling and I havent forgotten -you are one of the gems xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

[pastafreak]

Awww...we all love ya dris......you have LOTS of shoulders to lean on here.....and we will be here as long as you need us xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

[hussy]

im not on much now dris and to be honest the other half is complaining that hes getting left out....... but no matter what i know who my buddies are and i will always be the same no matter how long it takes me to come back on. i always back legs corner because when i started coming on he was the only one apart from icey and bigmamma and megan that answered my posts so i dont have a short memory. and i know you have gave me a mention before so respect and pasta is sound. get it up them LOL x

[Ice.Maiden]

Ladies - I think you're great, and as you can see dris, there's plenty of support for you. You know what I think, anyway. xx
I think you're a star hussy - and you know what? You're right to give your man some attention. xx

[Drisgirl]

Cheers hussy -think we are singing frrom the same song sheet there xxxx !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Pasta as always -just simple xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

[Drisgirl]

Sorry I am soooo not protracting this thread but looking back Ice Ice baby was a mainstay and I adore this babe cos she has been the mainstay throughout -thamk you hun - you are a gen person -and respe t an all that sister -npw i am takinf the peeeeeeeeeeeesssss.

Maw serioiusly Ice -you are fab and despite your 'mysterious' background-which thakfully no-one has either picked up on or dont care -bet youre glad -you are ab fab -seriousl;y hun.

Just a wee tip -rich coming from me -have to say -I dont bleat about what I have -you dont know and the most apart from a few know - cos it matters not a jot.I am who I am I am I - I am- work I do -and my husband (LOL)- well -he is a mere puppet - between us have we have 3 properties - now who is the clown cos he is oblivious -thankfully -lol

I even think he would LOL at that -seriously cos we (I) have made a great job without him interfering wa haayyyyy -little does he know between the 3 we have �1m but dont want to tell him THAT----------------no phone a friend LOL

[Drisgirl]

Meant tot say that before that I didnt actually work out how much we had -way to goooooooooooooooooooo -how uuuuuuuuuuunnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn shalow is that -i am sooooooooooooooo proud of myself.