These tend to work,Zma,catuaba, maca, mucuna pruriens, muira puama, tongkat ali, tribulus, ashwagandha, or horny goat weed. The zma,tongat ali,tribulis are testosterone boosters,the horny goat weed is more for the desire,the maca and muira puama,and horny goatweed and maca (they sell at hollandandbarrett) also these
http://www.hollandandbarrett.com/pages/product _detail.asp?pid=1490
i think are the ones for you,im not sure about the others,but i have heard that all of them work with some and not with others,it really depends on you trying and seeing whats best for you! Check with your doctor before buying and good luck and give her hell in the bedroom! lol!