She has redeemed herself

[sqad617]

Brought a hot Gingsters Cornish Pastie with Branston pickle in to my study so that I could watch Daily Politics on BBC 2. Tha't s more like it.
You give them pocket money, put a roof over their head, so what more can wives want?
Perplexed.

[sqad617]

leggy " Sqd everything , unless you have no self respect , or are perhaps desperate? "

Please translate.

[daniela31]

I think it might mean, behave yourself and stop chasing after salla.

[Bbbananas]

I have a lot of self respect. And I have never been desperate. I am perfectly capable of being faithful, and have been since the aforementioned relationship. And sometimes if a marriage is "worth nothing" there is a reason for that...

I'm not just talking extra-marital sex for the fun of it - for the 'kick', or just because you're bored.....I'm not talking a revenge affair or using sex outside of marriage to get back at someone. And an 'affair', however you interpret the word, isn't always about the sex. It can be because of a craving for affection & love & respect that you just don't get 'at home'.

Although I may come across, because of my humour (& I know I'm guilty on this one) , as being sex-mad, I can assure you I really am not. I can take it or leave it - it is never the be all & end all of a relationship. It is important but never the most important thing.

I have nothing more to say on this subject - I shouldn't have opened my big mouth on it in the first place.

[sqad617]

salla...you are entitled to an opinion and also livening up this thread. NOW:

Mrs sqad always went to the Harrods sales in January with a girlfriend and the would stay a couple of nights in a hotel. This had been going on for about 3yrs, but on this occasion, the girlfriend decided not to go, but to my surprise, mrs sqad elected to continue the trip. Now...I was a little suspicious as, the phone had gone on a couple of occasions and the phone went down. I asked the friend if anything was going on and the way she answered made me suspicious.

So......next installment or not?

[legendis.god]

Sqd you asked me a question.

That was my answer to you.

Simple enough , unless you forgot what you had asked me ?


� DID THAT HELP ?

[kjc]

you shouldn't put things like this on here sqad......................not fair to your wife.
if you want to tell salla about it then email her or get in touch on FB.

It's not right to let everyone on here know your business.
=-(

[legendis.god]

Sqd were you the village vicar by any chance?

Remarkably similar in your style.

[sqad617]

You have idea who I am, I have no idea who you are, that is why we come on the Internet....a nobody can become a somebody and you can see it in the answers.

Fair to my wife, was she fair to me?

I would not ask for anyone's email address on this website....not like some who have done so.

[sqad617]

leggy....once again spot on....I was the Vicar of Dibley.

Still can't understand your sentence.

[kjc]

Don't you feel ashamed talking about her like that?

You don't sound like a very nice person tbh, and i woudn''t be surprised if folk stopped talking to you on here because of it.
my opinion only.

[sqad617]

No not at all ashamed.

No perhaps your right, I'm not a nice person.

Well, I can't speak for other people, so we will have to wait and see.

"Nice people" make me uncomfortable as you never really know what ther'e really thinking.

[LoftyLottie2]

Sqaddy. No disrespect to you because (as you know) I enjoy your online company, but I actually think it's best to keep our real lives away from here, apart from very general matters.

[legendis.god]

YOUR QUESTION TO ME .


sqad617
Tue 03/03/09
14:22 Question Author

leggy


"that can be forgiven but never forgottten. "

So what's wrong in that?



AND MY RESPONSE.


legendis.god
Tue 03/03/09
14:27
Sqd everything , unless you have no self respect , or are perhaps desperate?



Now if you still cant understand that then youre very far removee d from the intellectual sitting in his study watching daily politics , that you profess to be.

Im away now anyway .
Must agree with kjc , if only i actually believed yet another rambling village yarn , but im more suspect of it than that.



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[carrust]

Squad. I,ve got a doubt in my mind about where you live at the moment? You say you live in Menorca or is it Majorca & you live in a villa. Looking at your thread starter you say that your missus gave you a Ginsters Cornish pastie for lunch..I didn't know you could get them in the Balearics?

[sqad617]

lofty....when you are on-line.....it isn't a real life.
But for you lofty.......anything.

[legendis.god]

Lotty true


but this is all fantasy.

Isnt it ?

[Gormless]

It's very droll, some people get lulled into thinking that this is a private place, only you and me hun, say anything you like.

Well, please always remember that you don't even have to register to read the tripe. Anybody with a pc anywhere in the world can read the posts on here - including wives and husbands you thought didn't know anything about it.

Knock at the door, that'll be Bertie, time for my rub.

[kjc]

It's true sqad, anyone can come to this site and look at crossword answers, you don't have to be a member. They only have to look at your post and think what a saddo you sound.
children too, it's a family site don't forget.

[LoftyLottie2]

We can be who we want to be when we are online. Personally, I am me and me only. But I don't talk about my family or my personal problems to people I don't know.
I enjoy talking to Squaddy. He is intelligent and makes me laugh and we have a good rapport on line.

[sqad617]

kjc......you may be right......probably a saddo....but how would anyone know my username.