Is it possible

[Toxicity]

to have great, regular sex with someone you don't actually like very much? Isn't it the purest form of intercourse - uncomplicated by emotions or the desire to make oneself in any degree likeable? It has all the up sides of a one night stand without the worry that your partner might be a serial killer!

Obviously the ideal scenario is for both parties to dislike each other equally - however, evidence suggests that this may lead to marriage!

Discuss - nicely!

[cazzz1975]

why have sex with someone you dont like very much?

[KingChain]

Is it possible
to have great, regular sex with someone you don't actually like very much?


YES! Its called drunken sex with someone you've just met on a fri/sat night!

[Nannyjillx2]

Quite often killers seem to know their victims so I don't think that is quite true.

I can only repeat Cazz1975's question too - strange thing to do.

[sn�gs]

Isn't Toxicity talking about purely 'selfish' sex... not love... which is fine if both parties feel the same way...

[smudge]

Can't think of anything worse!

[~max~]

It is possible to have great sex with someone you wouldn't consider having a relationship with though!
Been there! Nice person, get on well, but no real spark except for the...well...great sex!

[joko]

do you mean 'dont like much' as in dont fancy...or as in actually dislike them...?

[barry1010]

Isn't that exactly how animals behave? Dogs, for example?
My urges aren't so uncontrollable that I need to have intercourse with people I don't like.

[gonzo00]

i've had "relations" with someone i absoloutely HATE..and she HATES me..it was a spur of the moment thing and a complete one off...we'd hated each other for years too. i can honestly say that it was the best sex we both had ever had. i will never find sex like that again!!!! so ,to your question i'd say YES!

[pastafreak]

No...it would become soul-less and mechanical...that is not great in my book...

[gonzo00]

i'd have to say more like...dirty..sweaty and animalistic myself!

[Ice.Maiden]

Agree with pasta, because after the initial high of no-strings sex, it just means flitting onto the next conquest. No feelings attached, other than for basic needs. Soulless.

[pastafreak]

But gonzo......you said that was a one-off..........would it continue to be good if it were 'regular' as toxicity has described???

[Ice.Maiden]

But I assume it's all just memories now gonzo, so on reflection, WAS it really so good? Wouldn't you like to find someone you had real feelings for, and THEN have the mind-blowing stuff?

[gonzo00]

probably not pasta!! i won't lie to ya..but to this day we still hate each other..in fact i wouldn't think twice about shooting her in the face!! i accept that a one off is not a good yardstick.

[legendis.god]

sorry if thats your idea of fun


might as well go fk a prostitute


sex with folk you dont like ??

in my opinion youd have to be desperate to do that and would merely be making excuses afterwards


it is posssib�e to have sex with folk you like but dont bwant a relationship with


but the question is if you didnt like someone???




so in tht case desperation springs too mind




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[gonzo00]

icey..since then i've been with someone who i felt extremely deeply for, but NOTHING can ever come close to that experience! :0)

[crazycathy2]

I can't get my head round that

[Ice.Maiden]

Think that puts it in a nutshell very well Leggy, apart from the last remark. Some people never have feelings for anyone, so meaningless relationships are the norm for them.

[pastafreak]

gonzo!!..omg..I would be literally repelled by someone I hated....and you want to shoot her????......did you just 'turn off' any emotional feelings??