Had my contraceptive implant removed yesterday

[karma22]

Wasn't terribly pleasant and it was as bad as I thought it would be.

She took about 15 mins trying to get it out of my arm ewww and my arm felt well weird. I don't know if I would have another one again. Plus it left quite a hole in my skin I just hope it heals up ok.

[MarkRae]

LOL! Well, fair enough. Good luck with that.. :-)

[karma22]

I will probs need it but I'm not settling for anything less!

Come on you do hear some men say 'my wife is the most beautiful woman in the world, we have been married 50 years and I still think she is the most beautiful woman in the world' and stuff like that said.

[MarkRae]

Yes, but it's the old chestnut that men use love to get sex and women use sex to get love...

As in:

"If I tell her I love her, she'll let me sleep with her"

versus

"If I let him sleep with me, he'll tell me he loves me"

[karma22]

I know what you're saying and I know this is true in a lot of relationships.

However if it is like that then maybe its best not to be together...though thats when people use other reasons as an excuse not to break up and therefore just accept there relationship as it is.

I want the real deal and I may end up with half the deal one day and just accept it but theres not harm in trying!

:-)

[MarkRae]

I sincerely hope you do!

But at least you're realistic enough to realise that you probably won't...