low sex drive

[Nic2010]

Hi, I just wanted to know if there is anything out there herbal or otherwise to increase your sex drive. Sometimes i feel like the only time i have sex is when i have had a few drinks and often out it off. I know everyone is different but for the sake of a great new relationship i am in i want to feel like it abit more!
any advice or suggestions?

[Nic2010]

Thanks for all your answers...most of them made me chuckle!
btw I am a woman :)
Apart from the whole mind thing and ideas on anything i can take to increase my sex drive?

[mazie]

Sorry we highjacked you thread Nic.I'm glad sqad didnt upset you (he's harmless really)

Good luck with it hon. Just chill out or lie back and think of England xx

[rowanwitch]

Talk to him.....try to agree you wont even try and have full sex for two weeks kisses and cuddles only.....take the pressure off.... bet you won't last 10 days... the other thing is sex drive varies with individuals....don't believe all you read/hear as my old auntie used to say if you were doing it that much you wouldn't have breath to talk about it... although with some men of my acquaintance their fingers would be too sore to post about it... once a day, once aweek, weekends only, it's what's normal for you... and as long as it isn't a proble m for your new sig other why fret...

[leggyeile]

I hear ginseng can help boost libido. Best of luck. Check with pharmacist if its safe to use if you are taking other medications.