When u meet a new potential bf/gf

[tinkerbell23]

Do u think you should want to rip their clothes off there and then LOL

Or does that develop in ur opinion x

[pdust]

*Do u think you should want to rip their clothes off there and then LOL *

no but its a good feeling if you do feel like that lol

seriously though, when I met my husband we got to know each other well as the physical side was a big no no. my relationship with him is far and away better than any other relationship ive had and i believe its because of this.

[albaqwerty]

Em, the back of the car is a no-no.

sqadlet, you handle it with dignity as usual:)

[emmie]

alba gearstick gets in the way, that's without the knobs and doodads

[pa___ul3]

sqad there's a time and a place for each, maybe your old ticker's not up to the adrenaline rush of the ripping clothes off type but it definitely deserves it's place!

[albaqwerty]

Em, the back of the car has the knob and doodads:)

[Sqad]

pa_ula....LOL..LOL...No, I have only been asked to rip a woman's clothes off and i b@lls it up. We had been to see Straw Dogs...the film and she wanted me to take her home....strip her off and rape her. I stripped her off OK but couldn't get an erection which made raping her difficult. I am basically a forplay man.

[RATTER15]

No I wouldn't want to do that, if I was interested at all its because I have respect for her and if she tried to do that to me I would lose that respect, I wouldn't want any relationship with the local bike, gross!!

[LoftyLottie]

When I first met him, I didn't consider him as a potential bf. He was interesting and intriguing and I didn't instantly recognise a fatal attraction - at least I don't think so. We were both part of a large group of people the regularly socialised. But I must admit the lust came before the love - a long, long time before.

[albaqwerty]

Helen, met mine when I was 16. Oooh he was a sarcastic so-and-so, Kept bumping into him over the years. Obnoxious piece of stuff. Started going out with him when I was 21 /22 and a week later couldn't keep me mitts off him.
I think we had both grown up. Memories, memories....

[LoftyLottie]

On thinking about it, I never actually considered anybody as a potential boyfriend. I went out with far too many people to remember, but was never interested in having a steady boyfriend or settling down.

[albaqwerty]

I must admit it did take Mr Alba by surprise. It sure took me by surprise too.
As mentioned we are still together.

surpise?? jeezers, ya know what I mean

[pa___ul3]

helen, I wouldn't have sex on the first date either and I wouldn't want the girl to want to, I like the chase, the long game, I like to feel like I've earned something that isn't given away willy nilly and, especially when you'd like it to build into a relationship this is the time you get to know them too.

[Sqad]

pa_ula

\\\ I wouldn't have sex on the first date either and I wouldn't want the girl to want to, I like the chase, the long game\\\

Love it! love it!.....that's what the ABer women want to hear.

Me?.........no predetermined technique...take and act each on it's merits.

[Ankou]

i believe in the slow burning build up of passion.

i've never spent more than a week with a one night stand "relationship".

[pa___ul3]

haha, that's genuinely the way it is sqad, not playing to any crowd, I worked in a bar for 10 years so if all I wanted was the sex I could get that without taking her out and getting to know her, when I wanted more I wanted the chase.

[albaqwerty]

I'd like to think that after 5 years of 'bumping' in to each other we knew each other. He turned out to be a very nice caring man. He still is.
Wouldn't know what to do with meself if he tootled off anywhere.