When u meet a new potential bf/gf

[tinkerbell23]

Do u think you should want to rip their clothes off there and then LOL

Or does that develop in ur opinion x

[NOX]

Hmmm that's the difference between love and lust- you can see somone utterly gorgeous who you want to writhe around with until dawn and not love them because you don't know them- and that's very dangerous for me, because it doesn't take much of a personality flaw to put me right off someone, so I tend to get to know ladies a bit before I embark on anything physical because it's horrible to know that you've bedded a gorgeous racist for example- just makes you feel yukk- or worse still maybe someone who voted Conservative- imagine! ;-)

[tinkerbell23]

Great answer NOX

I thnk its prob better when i dont want to totally jump them !!!

Then it either develops or it dosent i guess xx

[ummmm]

The good, loving, long term relationships I've had.....it's the latter. x

[NOX]

I have quite a high sex drive and I generally know exactly the type of woman I'm attracted to and for me although the instinct is to move to something physical quite quickly, but then also you miss that gorgeous teasing phase where you hope you're going to catch sight of somone or orchestrate an 'accidental' meeting- plus if there is no chase it makes it less interesting- no-one likes soemthing that's available as and when, it just devalues the whole thing.
Do you have someone in your sights Tink?

[trt]

As long as the girl/woman has a shower before love making I don't care if she is a blue or red or even a racist! as long as she is clean and not HIV!

[tinkerbell23]

Possibly NOX lol!!!!!!

I thought so ummm!! LolTRT xxx

[venator]

tink - it's a game without rules.
Just don't hurt your partner.

The only things I regret are things I didn't do.

[tinkerbell23]

I dont have one to hurt :0/
Im the one who gets hurt :0(

I was just wondering about this- not my own situation..as usual inspired by TV lol xx

[peashaq]

29 years ago I was stopped by the police when I was driving out of a pub car park. It was in the days before the breathalyser test and I was instructed by a woman police officer to walk in a straight line. She said, "You're staggering" - I said "You're not bad looking yourself", we've been ripping each others clothes off ever since!

[tinkerbell23]

Hahaha love it!! Xx

[MarkRae]

Tinks, is this a reaction to all the sex programmes you've been watching lately, or have you got your eye on some poor unsuspecting "loon"? And I mean "loon" in the Scottish sense, of course...

[tinkerbell23]

I know mark!!!! Iv been a bit ova pest havent i
Its sex week on BBC3 - fascinting

Yes another question off the back of my late nite tv hahahahah

You kno me mark full of questions LOL!! And an overactive mind. X

[4getmenot]

no when i first met my bloke id been very hurt in the past and wasnt used to being loved. I was very much independent and squirmed at any affection. When i knew i could trust him and he wanted to love me and look after me that all changed.

[China Doll]

Bit of both really.

[pa___ul3]

I'd say both, it helps if you want to rip their clothes off then and there just as it helps if you think they're funny as hell or you really like the way they pout when they talk, it's an amalgamation of everything that gives you the right one.
And however much you want to rip there clothes off then and there, don't, the chase and build up makes the whole thing much more fun!

[albaqwerty]

I lasted a week before I ripped his clothes off. 25 years married this year.
Keep telling him to keep his clothes on now tho :)

[Sqad]

\\\to rip their clothes off there\\ RIP THEIR CLOTHES OFF?.........NEVER.

What sort of "animal like" behaviour is that? Foreplay is too sensitive, satisfying and erotic which is lost in "ripping their clothes off"
The unbuttoning, the unzipping......all part of meaningful foreplay.

RIPPING THEIR CLOTHES OFF?......that comes in an established relationship with advanced sexual perversions mutually beneficial to both parties.

[albaqwerty]

sqad, you got me hot and sticky now....

[emmie]

not if i am in the pub, that would be embarrassing.

[Sqad]

alba....I know.....I know.....I just have that effect on women......i have learned to live with it.